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Apr 03, 2010#1
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Declan
Apr 03, 2010#2
Toby-John
An interesting post, and I certainly think the threat of a caning is far more of a deterrent than all the stop messages we get. One thing, cigarettes cost between £4.50 and £6.50 for 20 , not £10 but it is still very expensive.
I never smoked at school not for fear of the cane , but simply that I didn’t smoke. The punishments though, were an automatic caning if you were caught. Usually two on the hand or four for repeat offenders. And there were certainly many repeat offenders, to the extent that some boys must have been caned twenty times during their school careers, so either smoking was so addictive or they could cope with the pain.
Hardly any girls smoked , which is odd seeing that more girls smoke today than boys. It is quite possible that the girls had a better hiding place and therefore were hardly ever caught. Canings took place in private so we did not always know who had been caned or not.I only know of three or four girls who were caned for smoking ( the fourth one denied she had been caned when a boy asked her, but she probably was- it was not something you were proud of)
The cane clearly had a deterrent effect for those that didn’t smoke , but less so for those that did.
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Apr 03, 2010#3
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Locally, in the old days, smoking at school or in school uniform carried an automatic penalty of four strokes of the cane, boys only of course as girls were not caned in those benighted days. Very few women smoked at that time and certainly not in public. I can’t ever remember any smoking canings at all. Few kids started until they left school.
Nowadays only the very stupid start smoking and only the immoral supply tobacco to the young. I very much doubt if those not deterred by the dreadful penalties of smoking will be much affected by the threat of immediate pain even if it were allowed. There could be some advantage in displacing tobacco from schools. Those that provide tobacco to the young for financial gain deserve something worse than caning. Perhaps they should be cast into a pit of burning tobacco?
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StevefromSE5
Apr 03, 2010#4
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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If we all stop smoking YOUR income tax will be up to 30p in the pound straight away, or VAT will hit 30%.
We should be encouraging everyone to smoke 5 or 6 a day in fact.
And, as an easy way to cut down, for Sandra, only smoke half of it at a time.
I’ve now been doing that for 5 weeks & have reduced from 20-22 a day to 9 or 10 without one day’s lapse.
OK, my sun room is effectively a £6k smoking room, but Sarah & the cats can choose not to inhale, either, though 2 of mine always fly out there with me for some passive smoking.
Steve
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Apr 03, 2010#5
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Toby-John: I dealt with this issue by using Winona Missouri corporal punishment policy. You can simply Google: Winona corporal punishment and see their matrix. Two issues were raised: the first one is detecting who has the pack and the other one why not tobacco cessation programs? I modified the code and corporally punished for all subsequent offenses with reduction by paricipation in programs. It is a sticky wicket. This fall I intend to revise for the ensuing year so I value any advice that anyone from this estimable Forum would deem applicable.
By way of anecdote (I hope you don’t mind my digressions) I held several positions (including a state wide position) as a volunteer in the American Cancer Society. Volunteers are grouped between three categories: service (like driving to treatment facilities called road to recovery. I was not involved in SERVICE with women predominately dealing with breast cancer. and the other two I alternated years with PUBLIC EDUCATION where we were given percentage goals of reaching out with a greater percentage for youth (captive audience because of schools) and adults (less accessible). I resigned for I was once involved in CRUSADE (i.e. fund raising door to door). Guess what? Many volunterrs then got paid.
The state adds a twenty five cent tax a pack for education and cessation programs (Great American Smokeout) and what do they do with it? Now there free to spend it any way they want for taxes raised can be spent anyway the legislators want to. The newest political alliance (against taxes) is called the Tea Party. We all know the biggest addiction is the state (Money).
Now picture this I’m the youngest president of the unit and we are meeting in a hospital conference room in the seventies and I gavel meetings stricly at the hour so members can go to the smoking area set aside in the hospital.
Bottom line. Nicotine is an addiction meant to be controlled (smoking areas) and will never be eliminated. Paddle their asses off until they get the point or jail them during free periods (t-room) ot Saturday detention. Don’t ask Dr Freud why woman smoke more then men? Ask Grouch Marx. Some times a cigar is just a cigar.
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Apr 03, 2010#6
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Toby-John
Excellent post, you make some very good points.
The detrimental effects of smoking are becoming more widely known and that knowledge seems to be having some effect. It’s just a gut felling but I’m sure, when I was younger, most adults smoked (men more than women) but nowadays the reverse seems true – most adults don’t smoke but more women smoke than men.
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each.
I haven’t bought UK priced cigarettes for years (I buy mine elsewhere in Europe) but, as Declan says, they’re between £4.50 and £6.50 (£7.00?) for twenty. Hand rolling tobacco is about £11.00 for 50 grams. The price varies across Europe but, roughly speaking, cigarettes are about £3.50 for twenty and tobacco about £5.00 for 50 grams depending on the exchange rate at the time.
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
I sometimes take a short trip abroad just to buy my cigarettes. The savings more than pay for the trip. I do agree with your point though.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
That is one of the consequences of not caning girls. I given something like that as an example of how this works against girls. If a group of boys and girls were caught smoking, the boys might be caned and go on to complete their education – A’ Levels, Uni etc. while the girls (exempt from the cane) are expelled or suspended, thereby ruining their education and leaving them to pursue a career in “shelf stacking” or “burger flipping.”
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
It could have tried harder instead of just ruining her chances by expelling her.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker.
There were several factors involved there. It was just before the summer holidays so, although I was very careful not to be caught for the remainder of the term, I then had 6 weeks during which I could smoke with relative impunity. By the time I returned to school, I’d developed the habit, if not an actual addiction.
Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
It might have worked if I had it earlier in the year rather than just before a long holiday. The usual punishment, for first time smokers, was four strokes and there wouldn’t have been any obvious reason to deviate from that in my case.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
I didn’t think so at the time but, now, I wish she had tried that.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
This is something others have noticed too, the cane didn’t appear to stop already established smokers – it tended just to make us more careful. I think the threat of the cane definitely discouraged some from starting and, even if that’s all it did, it was a good thing. It does seem to have worked in “Amber’s” and “Lisa’s” cases though. Strange that you’ve found two girls it worked for when, according to some, it’s not likely to be effective on girls. For the record, from personal experience as a girl on the receiving end, it imparts a rather unpleasant sensation on us too!
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I think it was a bit of both. We can’t ignore the addiction element but I think the “battle of wills” played a part. Smoking by adults was quite acceptable in those days so, to some extent, it was something for us to aspire to – it was part of being seen as an adult.
Declan
Hardly any girls smoked , which is odd seeing that more girls smoke today than boys. It is quite possible that the girls had a better hiding place and therefore were hardly ever caught.
That’s very odd although, as you say, they might just have been better at not getting caught. There is also the possibility that, even at schools where girls were, theoretically, liable to be caned, teachers might turn a blind eye to offences committed by girls – other posters here have given examples of that.
At my school, it seemed about equal numbers of boys and girls smoked and I put that down to the fact that we both faced exactly the same punishment if caught. I know, in some schools, far more girls smoked than boys but, as girls were effectively exempt from punishment, that didn’t seem surprising.
KK
Locally, in the old days, smoking at school or in school uniform carried an automatic penalty of four strokes of the cane, boys only of course as girls were not caned in those benighted days. Very few women smoked at that time and certainly not in public.
What era was that? As I said above, my impression was that, although girls were more likely to smoke than boys, fewer adult women seemed to smoke. If women tended not to smoke in public, that might explain why fewer of them seemed to smoke.
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Chirob
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Apr 03, 2010#7
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I don’t support cp at school period. But if you caught someone smoking their first few cigs it might work. After they are hooked it’s too late. All the beatings will do no good. Nicotine is harder than Heroin to quit. I quit years ago and I still want one sometimes.
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StevefromSE5
Apr 03, 2010#8
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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JENNY TOBY-JOHN KK & BOB
What we are all missing is the one trick that WILL stop young people smoking.
Get terminally uncool people to make a Start Smoking-NOW! video.
Seriously, how difficult would it be? Prince Charles, John Prescott & Robbie Williams come to mind in this country.
Not so sure about the US, but you will know a few, Bob.
Is it worth a try or not? Kids DO tend to follow role models slavishly at the age we are aiming at-which is now around 8 to 12.
So, why not a little reverse psychology? Do you think smoking’s cool-do you REALLY want to end up talking to plants or shafting your diary secretary when not breaking toilet seats?
Steve M
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c.farrell
Apr 03, 2010#9
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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No kind of punishment is going to stop people smoking. Probably the more you go on about it how wrong and dangerous it is, the more kids will want to rebel and try it out. What the threat of being sent to the head’s study (= automatic caning) did do (it worked for me) was stop boys from smoking in school uniform, whether on or off the premises. It certainly caused me to make sure I only smoked in secret places outside school hours and out of uniform. Which is about as much as you can expect, really.
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JennyBr
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Apr 03, 2010#10
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi c.farrell
No kind of punishment is going to stop people smoking. Probably the more you go on about it how wrong and dangerous it is, the more kids will want to rebel and try it out.
I’ve heard something similar before, that one reason smoking is so attractive to young people is that it’s an adult activity jealously guarded by adults. Adults (did) enjoy smoking and took great steps (the cane) to prevent young people sharing that enjoyment. If adults hadn’t made such a big thing of young people smoking, it might not have been so attractive.
What the threat of being sent to the head’s study (= automatic caning) did do (it worked for me) was stop boys from smoking in school uniform, whether on or off the premises.
It only stopped my friends and me doing it where we were likely to be seen. If it hadn’t have been for the threat of the cane, we wouldn’t have bothered to do it secretly.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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As someone who has never had a cigarette in his lips, let alone smoked one, I am perhaps not well qualified to comment here. I can however understand that corporal punishment (when it was available) was unlikely to deter serious smokers. What I can’t fathom is how those starting to smoke can ignore the financial implications. Even as a boy these were quite obvious to me. And they are far worse now. Around here (where admittedly house prices are not excessively high) any half serious life-long smoker buying at supermarket prices will have smoked a three bedroom house by the time they draw their state pension – and if they venture very much over 20 a day it could verge on a nice 4 bed detached!
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tobyjohn
Apr 04, 2010#12
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Jenny
Can you remember why you, as a young person, started to smoke?
Did the fact that it was against school rules make any difference?
Before you started smoking, were you aware that girls and boys in your school were caned when they were caught smoking? Assuming you did know, how did that affect you in your decision to start smoking?
Did your parents tell you not to start smoking? Did your Dad threaten you with a dose of his belt if he found you were smoking?
What dangers of smoking were you warned of ?? Did you think these warning were true ?
Toby-John
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Apr 04, 2010#13
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Teacher Chatboard:
I noticed the recent date and the fact that five swat testimonials from girls other than for smoking seem non-existent. Also, in sub-zero Farenheit smokers can be found with their backs against the outside wall of work. Learning to control it just for those days may be a help for Mary’s future. Maybe this three limit is for the birds?
On 9/20/09, Mary wrote:
I got paddled in 11th grade for smoking. Those 5
licks of the paddle taught me more than anything
alse ever could have, even a year of Saturday detention.
I’m in college now and every time I smell cigarette smoke, my butt aches.
I’ll never smoke again I’m sure–that paddling may have
roasted my back side, but saved my lungs and life!
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StevefromSE5
Apr 04, 2010#14
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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In reply to Another_Lurker’s economics.
If I assume an average of 21 day prior to cutting down, I was spending, in an average month of 30.4167 days(of which we have a lot, you’ll notice!!), at £54.00 per 200 pack
£172.80
Now, staying at the present 9 a day, AND that includes yesterday’s trauma of the well-dodgy offside at Old Trafford, in the same average month, the cost will be
£57.54
Steve
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Apr 04, 2010#15
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Steve. You said:
that includes yesterday’s trauma of the well-dodgy offside at Old Trafford
Yes, I happened to see that at a friend’s house. Even with my limited knowledge of the game I could see it was well offside. I don’t know where the officials were looking, but it certainly wasn’t at the play!
Economics: The only cigarettes I’m familiar with are those that I sometimes pick up for someone else. As it is always a last minute request to get them they are brought at a corner shop or garage on the way to visit said smoker. They’ve just gone up from £6·15 to £6·38 for 20. At 20 a day that’s £2328·70 in a normal year. The tax on them is set to rise at inflation plus 2% from 2011 until 2014, and in view of the state of the country’s finances I don’t see that altering much thereafter for many years, unless it goes up even further!
I have suggested to said smoker buying in bulk, buying from abroad, etc. I’ve even offered to store them to avoid the temptation to over-indulge, none of which has apparently offered an acceptable alternative to buying them daily.
At nine a day you hardly even register as a smoker on my man’s scale. He’s been up at 60 a day in the past. And just to confound the health aspects, he can, and has, bust those airflow monitoring sliding tube things doctors use!
Sadly though, I’ve got to dispute your maths!
I’ll stick with your 30·4167 day month.
You say you are now smoking 9 per day.
So that’s 30·4167 × 9 cigs per month = 273·75 cigs per month.
And you say they cost £54 per 200.
So that’s a cost of (273·75 ÷ 200) × £54 per month
Which is £73·91 per month, not £57·54 as you say.
Sorry about that, but I’ve learnt by bitter experience that cigarette smoke has a strange effect on mathematical ability where any calculation involving the cost of cigarettes is involved!
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Toby-John
Can you remember why you, as a young person, started to smoke?
I can’t really remember at what point I became “a smoker.” I remember having a few puffs on a cigarette at a party and then, later, one of my friends had some cigarettes at school so a few of us sneaked off with her and had a few puffs. It became a bit of a regular thing – until we got caught. Shortly after that there was the summer holiday, during which I could smoke with impunity – and did. I also had friends at other schools where, de facto, girls were allowed to smoke so I tended to smoke when I was with them. It just took hold from there.
Did the fact that it was against school rules make any difference?
I don’t think it made much difference but there was the added “thrill” of the risk taking.
Before you started smoking, were you aware that girls and boys in your school were caned when they were caught smoking? Assuming you did know, how did that affect you in your decision to start smoking?
It was no secret that several boys and girls had been caned for being caught smoking so we were all well aware of what we’d get if we were caught. I don’t think that knowledge had much effect on my decision to smoke because I didn’t think we’d be caught but it did make us very careful not to be caught. Obviously not careful enough though.
Did your parents tell you not to start smoking? Did your Dad threaten you with a dose of his belt if he found you were smoking?
I can’t remember my parents saying anything about smoking to me. I feel sure they must have done but I can’t say what it was.
What dangers of smoking were you warned of ?? Did you think these warning were true?
Just the usual health warning type things but we didn’t take it seriously then.
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Apr 05, 2010#17
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I wrote in part:
Locally, in the old days, smoking at school or in school uniform carried an automatic penalty of four strokes of the cane, boys only of course as girls were not caned in those benighted days. Very few women smoked at that time and certainly not in public.
Jenny replied:
What era was that? As I said above, my impression was that, although girls were more likely to smoke than boys, fewer adult women seemed to smoke. If women tended not to smoke in public, that might explain why fewer of them seemed to smoke.
This was not very long ago – 1950s & 1960s. For most of human history, in most societies, men and women had different roles mainly determined by the requirements of child bearing and rearing. Only with the advent of effective birth control did things change although the trend towards equality did start with manpower (sic) shortages during WW2 and probably occured at other times in history.
I agree that gender stereotyping went too far and that it disadvantaged humanity when practiced to extreme. I further agree that it disadvantaged non-stereotypical individuals.
I agree that the behaviour of a few present day females is very poor and as bad as that of some males.
I do not agree that males and females are the same and should always be treated identically.
Locally, females have only started smoking more than males in the last few years (10?). The females who do smoke tend to be less educated and low income.
Jenny, your point of view might carry more weight if you had a better understanding of how things were and why.
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Apr 05, 2010#18
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hello Everybody
Apologies for my poor Maths !
I had done a bit of research in local Supermarkets, and bigies like Tesco, and asked addicted friends, and come up with the notion that ciggies cost about £5 a packet. I know, honest I do know, that a packet nowadays has 20 “Smokes” (though I do remember buying pkts of 10, and even pkts of 5 when I was a teenager – my favourite was 10 – see below) .
Anyway, having done all this research, and worked out all the calculations, I forgot that for the sake of easy Maths, I had assumed 10 to a packet, and was going to divide everything by 2 at the end.
But Forgot. Sorry
I think this is a serious offence, as my calculations appeared in public, so a serious punishment maybe appropriate?
3 Hour Detention ?
or 3 swats ?
Toby-John
I used to buy 10s, because the empty packet could easily be made into an Army Tank.
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tobyjohn
Apr 05, 2010#19
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hello American Way
Please start by telling us non-Americans what age students are who attend High School, and does everyone go to High School, or is it only for students who have gained entrance by achieving academic grades?
Are the non achievers, the lazy at school, now likely to have joined the employment queues, or does everyone go to High-School as parts of statutory education ?
THE REMAINDER of my question depends quite a bit on who is at High School, but I will proceed anyway:
I am surprised that the most serious punishment is “just” Expulsion, and preceded by “just” 10 days Suspension.
If a student wants out of High-School, insulting a Teacher, or selling a few beers, could be an easy way out.
But if Suspension and Expulsion are always combined with a few swats .. personal accountability comes in, and may discourage such silly behaviour.
In your text you also say:
Two issues were raised: the first one is detecting who has the pack and the other one why not tobacco cessation programs?
I read somewhere else on this forum, that punishment was applied to a whole group at a school, even if just one in the group was found to have ciggies. This seems reasonable to me, friends should not associate with smokers, or at least make sure that no ciggies are being carried by anyone in the group. This would also cover a group discovered smoking, punish the whole group, even if only one is smoking.
A head master I spoke to about 30 years ago used to cane boys found fighting, and cane everybody watching too! This was a boys Grammer, no girls to consider.
Please describe what you mean by a “Tobacco Cessation Program”. Surely “cessation” is what we are trying to achieve all the time, and sometimes have to use Corporal Punishment as the tool.
Toby-John
Your references to Winona High School, surely comes close to identifying who you are ? Is this wise? or are you using Winona itself as a Nom-de-Plume ?
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi KK
I asked: What era was that? As I said above, my impression was that, although girls were more likely to smoke than boys, fewer adult women seemed to smoke. If women tended not to smoke in public, that might explain why fewer of them seemed to smoke.
This was not very long ago – 1950s & 1960s.
OK, that’s a little earlier than when I was at school.
I agree that gender stereotyping went too far and that it disadvantaged humanity when practiced to extreme. I further agree that it disadvantaged non-stereotypical individuals.
I believe any gender stereotyping is harmful to society be because it prevents individuals achieving their full potential. Also, it always tends to be absolute with no flexibility to allow for individual differences.
I agree that the behaviour of a few present day females is very poor and as bad as that of some males.
You’re starting there with the assumption that men’s behaviour is generally worse than that of women. It could just as well be said the some men behave as badly as women. You don’t seem to know what we can be like when we feel completely unfettered. You might have seen groups of drunken “ladettes” on a Saturday night but, in general, their behaviour is quite tame compared to what I’ve seen when there aren’t any men around. From what I’ve seen on TV “reality programs” it seems most of their excesses are edited out.
I do not agree that males and females are the same and should always be treated identically.
Why not? Why should one have more rights or freedom than the other when the only difference is their sex? I can accept their biological needs are different in a few respects but, apart from those few exceptions, I see no reason for men and women to not be treated the same.
Locally, females have only started smoking more than males in the last few years (10?). The females who do smoke tend to be less educated and low income.
What do you mean by “locally”? Are you in the UK? I accept it might not hold true everywhere but my impression is that teenage girls of my era (and today) were more likely to smoke than teenage boys and I put forward a suggestion why that might be so – girls were less likely to be punished if caught. I based that on my observation that, at my school where both boys and girls faced the same punishment if caught, the numbers seemed about equal. I’ve since learned other factors are involved and, even when faced with the same punishment, teenage girls are still more likely to smoke.
Jenny, your point of view might carry more weight if you had a better understanding of how things were and why.
I think I have a very good understanding of how things were during my time at school – I was there. I also have a good idea of how things were at other schools, from talking to people who attended other schools. At my school, both sexes benefited from a reasonably disciplined environment. I very much doubt any of us there would have done as well in a school where half the pupils were allowed to do much as they pleased.
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JennyBr
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Apr 05, 2010#21
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Toby-John
I read somewhere else on this forum, that punishment was applied to a whole group at a school, even if just one in the group was found to have ciggies. This seems reasonable to me, friends should not associate with smokers, or at least make sure that no ciggies are being carried by anyone in the group.
I can’t agree with that. Why should everyone present be punished because, unknown to them, one of their number breaks a rule? Would you expect them to all search each other immediately upon meeting to ensure none was carrying cigarettes or other prohibited items?
This would also cover a group discovered smoking, punish the whole group, even if only one is smoking.
That’s a different scenario. If one of a group is smoking, the others are aware of that and are quite likely to be participating in some way – even if not actually smoking at the precise moment they’re spotted.
A head master I spoke to about 30 years ago used to cane boys found fighting, and cane everybody watching too! This was a boys Grammer, no girls to consider.
I wonder what he would have done in a co-ed school. I can well imagine the (female) combatants, together with any girls cheering them on, getting a mild telling and any boy spectating, or even in the vicinity, being caned. Some of us will know of schools where that actually happened.
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Apr 05, 2010#22
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Toby-Jihn:
You can’t buy tobacco legally while you are of school age. 13 to 17 but maybe 18 when you can buy legally and share with your younger friends. Perilously close distinction between avoiding and finking when it comes to your mate smoking. You’re singling out by ostracizing. school is a parent/student venture and the teachers decide what they accept or not in classroom or school building. An ISS suspension involves working in a classroom with teachers giving learning projects wile OSS at home if the school thinks the kid needs to be away from that enviroment.
Most city ior town or county have behavioral problem schooling so when you see expulsion it doesn’t mean out on the street. Counselors work with the parents. Saturday detention is the way to go but there is some unfairness there. Kids with jobs and extracuricular suffer more than those who just don’t care. No perfect system.
Parents have to take care and are legally enforced (food-clothing-shelter for their children to the age of emancipation around 18. The kids that drop out are usually back for an equivalency diploma which is look down upon unless you want to join the service ever in need of bodies. Even with a high school diploma it mean a fries no fries fast food job takeout. In this economy even that that looks good.
Tobacco like pills, nicotine patch or hypnotism are involved in cessation. All dicey because they are minors. Counseling for prevention and cessation are involved as well.
Personal responsibility with compound punishment makes sense (non-CP plus suspension and expulsion) but has never been a part of the practice for paddling is suppose to prevent missing time. Nancy had both ends a half day Saturday detention and three relatively typical swats from what I gather from reading trutv correspondences.
Immigrants (more likely to be upper mobile) while those on the dole for generations often enter the prison revolving doors. Schools principals off is usually one step from the court house. A random search found Winona MO code of conduct before it became a part of the thorough collection of Corpun’s list of student handbooks. MO has excellent records and warns the parents about bruising. It also puts a ceiling of six swats. New Mexico recently was mentioned as practicing CP and that’s the only state that sensible requires instruction on how to use it.
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mimi
Apr 05, 2010#23
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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A trip around a cancer ward would be more efective than any punishment?
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Guest
Apr 05, 2010#24
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I started – and stopped- smoking at an early age. Whilst still at primary school, I and one of my best friends decided to try smoking. My Dad didn’t smoke, but frequently entertained business clients at home. He had a large box of cigarettes in the lounge for such occasions, with an appropriate mixture of types. We though a couple of ciggies ‘walking’ wouldn’t be noticed……….
He however noticed, and formed a plan.My Dad spoke to and got the agreement of my friend’s father He replaced the usual cigarettes with ‘ Capstan full strength’ a particularly strong cigarette. He then waited until the two of us took a couple and went into the woodland at the bottom of our garden to smoke them.He followed us, and on finding us told us if we were such big strong men then we would have no trouble in smoking an entire cigarette each. Of course we were both sick as dogs , and speaking for myself it was lifelong effective aversion therapy.
Later on , as I have written elsewhere in this forum, (June 27th 5.31pm , 2009 thread/1240333465 (Headmaster or Principal vs Teacher & Strokes or Swats maximum?),I was punished for buying cigarettes for my girlfriend. Schools took the mere possession of tobacco as a hanging offence, and no second chances; parents normally agreed. This despite in those days a legal possession age of 16.
Doubtless what my father did to us at such an early age would today be fashioned as child abuse. All I can say if it was ruthless, it was also effective. He had undergone the same treatment when he was young , and stayed a non smoker!
At my school six of the best was the norm. My view? It deterred first timers, but not those already chemically ‘hooked’, but was seen as a very important deterrent and a good piece of local PR. The school wanted to discourage pupils from smoking or buying cigarettes in public (image). In the sixth form you were allowed to smoke in the common room, which some saw as hypocritical .
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Ketta1
Apr 09, 2010#25
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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The law extends to the age a person can purchase tobacco, was there a legal age at which a person could smoke, I don’t think there was, then, or today,this always seems to raise some confusion. The majority of schools didn’ t follow leniency smoking and being in possession were quite high on the list of caning offences.
Although I never smoked, I did get caught in possession but avoided the penalty by quick thinking. The cane in my eyes never acted as deterrent, cigarettes being addictive. For those who did smoke it was a case of being vigilant and unfortunate if caught , and that’s what got you caned, getting caught , breaking the rule that said you don’t smoke here, or to and from school. There were no accompanying lectures to the benefit for not smoking , or why the no smoke rule existed out of the classroom,
Health and safety weren’t born as we know it today, not many school burnt to the ground, well one, twice but that wasn’t a result of smoking, Teachers hardly set by example as they emerged back to the classroom from the haze of a staffroom, with similarities to a London smog, lingering smell of tobacco in the classroom, must have wetted the appetite and encouraged the smoking brigade to light up again at the first available break.
Understandably like forbidden fruit it’s no wonder so many fell to temptation early, smoking was fashionable among our peers, magazines, newspapers ran glamorous smoking adds, if you were lucky enough to have access to a TV you grew up seeing ads similar to these, albeit these look a bit Americanised HERE.
And growing up was all about testing boundaries and acting like you were older than you were, now it’s the other way round, we all want to younger,
Remember those errands to fetch an adult, teachers included, a packet of woodbines or a couple of loose ciggies, shop keepers turning a blind eye. At primary school, young as we were there was always one or more who sneaked the odd cigarette from their peers packet on the pretence they were just picking out those now highly collectable cigarette cards, swaps or flicks in the playground as we called it, football, cricket idles of the day, Steve will remember posting my idle L.B. – how much is a copy worth on ebay, Julie Brown Loves Captain Cook sold only 300 copies
At Senior school there was always a line up of the regular dedicated smokers outside the heads office, mainly boys, fewer girls, maybe girls were more discreet in their activities or more careful. I would say at co-ed school we had our fair share of female smokers , when I moved to a girls only school, being only boarders we had less opportunity of smoking out of school, less chance of addiction, getting tobacco in was risky, and pocket money a pitance v the price of a packet of ciggies.
A couple of linksHERE. and HERE. show some very inconclusive studies among school smokers.
Ketta
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StevefromSE5
Apr 09, 2010#26
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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KETTA
Smoking at MGS was so bad, they had to build in a mezzonine floor with skylight windows provided, which were permanently open.
And that was the bloody staff room!!!!! Talk about Pour Encourager Les Autres!
I couldn’t have given a toss about the consequences before & after getting caught. I knew if Moody got me a 2nd time I’d be expelled, so the zero tolerance to smoking policy simply taught me to lie like mad.
Great example, eh?
As far as I remember, you could buy cigarettes from 14 legally, and not smoke them legally until you were 16. But I didn’t look it up at the time.
It was just my bad luck to have a Father who’d packed up from 40 a day & a Mum who’d packed up from 20 a day. So, you can see you have to be a complete bloody idiot or someone who enjoys it to’ve been smoking in those circumstances for 44 years come July.
And, A_L, if you are reading this & want to calculate the cost, you’ll need to average the price over those years, but, if you want to:
1966-1971:Usually Players No 6, which were 2s 9d for 20 on average, or 13.5p(?) for younger readers!! In those days, I smoked around 8 a day.
1971-date:Marlboro; I’d guess average £2.50 for 20 over that time. I’d guess the average consumption would be 15 a day over that time.
Steve
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Apr 09, 2010#27
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Steve. If you don’t mind I won’t do your ciggie calculation. At that sort of consumption level I doubt if smoking has ever caused you any financial problems, and it’s financial problems that led to my interest in smoking. Below 20 a day you don’t even appear on the radar screen, I’m used to dealing with way beyond that level.
Sadly when kids start out smoking they have no way of knowing how addicted they’ll become and what consumption they’ll reach. That’s why I’d support, and indeed did support, any measures to discourage children from taking it up, including caning where available and appropriate.
Like many people who have never smoked at all I’ve no objection to smoking per se, though with the stuff they put in cigarettes now that affects the eyes (possibly ammonia, which apparently increase nicotine absorption and hence addiction) I don’t allow cigarettes in my car. Bring a GOOD cigar though and you’re welcome to ride for as long as you like! In general it’s the one-time smokers who’ve given up who join the rabid anti-smoking brigade.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Ketta
The law extends to the age a person can purchase tobacco, was there a legal age at which a person could smoke, I don’t think there was, then, or today,this always seems to raise some confusion.
It might be 5, the same as for drinking alcohol, but I’ve never seen anything to confirm that so there might not be a minimum age for smoking.
Although I never smoked, I did get caught in possession but avoided the penalty by quick thinking.
Yes, I still laugh when I think about that story.
The cane in my eyes never acted as deterrent, cigarettes being addictive.
I think it might have deterred a few from starting. I can only remember a couple (both girls) who stopped after being caned for it, but it might just have been that they were so careful not to be caught again that none of us knew they still smoked.
At Senior school there was always a line up of the regular dedicated smokers outside the heads office, mainly boys, fewer girls, maybe girls were more discreet in their activities or more careful.
Much the same at my school but there were about equal numbers of boys and girls. At your school, did boys and girls smoke separately or together? At mine we tended to mix a lot so tended to be caught in equal numbers. Perhaps, at your school, the girls had found better hiding places.
I would say at co-ed school we had our fair share of female smokers,
Would you say the ratio (whatever it were) of male to female smoker was roughly the same as the ratio of those caned for being caught smoking?
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Ketta1
Apr 12, 2010#29
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Steve
Smoking at MGS was so bad, they had to build in a mezzonine floor with skylight windows provided, which were permanently open.
And that was the bloody staff room!!!!! Talk about Pour Encourager Les Autres!
There has to be perks in every job, evident enough, not every packet of confiscated fags ended in the bin
Jenny
At Senior school there was always a line up of the regular dedicated smokers outside the heads office, mainly boys, fewer girls, maybe girls were more discreet in their activities or more careful.
Much the same at my school but there were about equal numbers of boys and girls. At your school, did boys and girls smoke separately or together? At mine we tended to mix a lot so tended to be caught in equal numbers. Perhaps, at your school, the girls had found better hiding places.
Ours was a typical Victorian built school, surrounding playground and no extended sports grounds etc, so areas where you might not get caught were limited, boys and girls tended to kept separate council where smoking was concerned, with exceptions. The existence of a liberated key to the coal cellar was one a small group smokers had access to, mainly girls.
I would say at co-ed school we had our fair share of female smokers,
Would you say the ratio (whatever it were) of male to female smoker was roughly the same as the ratio of those caned for being caught smoking?
I’d say more boys were caned on ratio, I think it was assumed boys smoked more than girls so their groups were targeted first, which time word got around to the girls.
Boys and girls caught together would receive the same punishment but from their own gender head. Certainly more boys got caught in possession, bag searches were done randomly during lunch breaks, even matches were evidence enough to condemn you as a smoker or arsonist. Boys keep their cigarettes in packets, girls however, learnt the art and benefit of concealing individual cigs in varied and more interesting locations .
Ketta
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tobyjohn
Apr 17, 2010#30
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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This week I watched Panorama on BBC TV, it was about avoidable illnesses in children.
One issue raise is of hearing problems in young children.
The nurse treating the children said she could see in their ears, residue indicating that the child lives in a home where people smoke.
Some parents said they always went out side to smoke, but the nurse said that made little difference as the smoke clung to clothing, and would be harmful to children for about 2 hours after each cigarette. The only way to prevent this, is to have a complete change of clothing, and a shower, after every cigarette!
How could our generation have been better encouraged not to smoke?
and how can we encourage young people today not to smoke ?
Toby-John
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tobyjohn
Apr 24, 2010#31
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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In my pre-amble at the top of this thread, I included these few sentences about “Reasonable Punishment”:
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
I would like to ask again regarding repeat caning for smoking: If you were caned “6 or 12 of the very best” several times for smoking, lets say 5 times or more, or were aware of other people receiving many repetitions of punishment for smoking, and this punishment was obviously not making any difference to the offender.
It is obviously necessary for some undesirable punishment to be given, as no direct disobedience of school rules can go unpunished.
What other punishment do you consider may have been appropriate ??
Please do not include expulsion.
Thank you, Toby-John
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Apr 24, 2010#32
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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When I was in school the age of majority was 21. Many men smoked but very few women. Few if any students had steady girl/boy friends and certainly not before the 6th form. A 16 year old then was much less sophisticated and “grownup” than 16 year olds of today. Teenagers had little money. Smoking was thought to stunt your growth and not considered appropriate for children.
The standard penalty for smoking at school or in school uniform or during school hours was four of the best. It was an effective, very rarely used punishment. Very few school kids smoked. If they did smoke, it was not at school. I recall no cases of repeat offenders.
Lack of money and lack of social pressure were probably more important than deterrent punishment in delaying kids taking up smoking. It is now recognised that smoking is particularly damaging to the young so the delay had real benefits.
Other rites of passage were available. I got my first long pants at age 15 and my first watch at age 17.
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The law extends to the age a person can purchase tobacco, was there a legal age at which a person could smoke, I don’t think there was, then, or today,this always seems to raise some confusion. The majority of schools didn’ t follow leniency smoking and being in possession were quite high on the list of caning offences.
Although I never smoked, I did get caught in possession but avoided the penalty by quick thinking. The cane in my eyes never acted as deterrent, cigarettes being addictive. For those who did smoke it was a case of being vigilant and unfortunate if caught , and that’s what got you caned, getting caught , breaking the rule that said you don’t smoke here, or to and from school. There were no accompanying lectures to the benefit for not smoking , or why the no smoke rule existed out of the classroom,
Health and safety weren’t born as we know it today, not many school burnt to the ground, well one, twice but that wasn’t a result of smoking, Teachers hardly set by example as they emerged back to the classroom from the haze of a staffroom, with similarities to a London smog, lingering smell of tobacco in the classroom, must have wetted the appetite and encouraged the smoking brigade to light up again at the first available break.
Understandably like forbidden fruit it’s no wonder so many fell to temptation early, smoking was fashionable among our peers, magazines, newspapers ran glamorous smoking adds, if you were lucky enough to have access to a TV you grew up seeing ads similar to these, albeit these look a bit Americanised HERE.
And growing up was all about testing boundaries and acting like you were older than you were, now it’s the other way round, we all want to younger,
Remember those errands to fetch an adult, teachers included, a packet of woodbines or a couple of loose ciggies, shop keepers turning a blind eye. At primary school, young as we were there was always one or more who sneaked the odd cigarette from their peers packet on the pretence they were just picking out those now highly collectable cigarette cards, swaps or flicks in the playground as we called it, football, cricket idles of the day, Steve will remember posting my idle L.B. – how much is a copy worth on ebay, Julie Brown Loves Captain Cook sold only 300 copies
At Senior school there was always a line up of the regular dedicated smokers outside the heads office, mainly boys, fewer girls, maybe girls were more discreet in their activities or more careful. I would say at co-ed school we had our fair share of female smokers , when I moved to a girls only school, being only boarders we had less opportunity of smoking out of school, less chance of addiction, getting tobacco in was risky, and pocket money a pitance v the price of a packet of ciggies.
A couple of linksHERE. and HERE. show some very inconclusive studies among school smokers.
Ketta
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N.B. Room and doom were words Corpun mentioned and “big time whuppin” is usually used by an African American. This was from the latest Teachers Chatboard. This has a ring of familiarity that makes it suspects.
Re: corporal punishment in Texas?
Posted by: EmilyTW on 8/19/10
Where I went to high school in the late 90’s, female students who
chose corporal punishment got their paddling from a designated female
coach. She was a former college tennis player with a mean forehand
who has the process of administering a hard and humiliating paddling
down to an art. I only got it once, but that was enough for me and I
will never forget it.
She would take you back to a large closet in the locker room known as
the “room of doom,” which was pretty much empty except for a paddle
hanging on the wall. She would order you to empty your pockets and
bend over with your palms against the wall in a kind of strip search
position.
Instead of just administering the paddling, she would ask what you did
to “deserve the big time whuppin’ you’re about to get?” Then she
would make sarcastic remarks like, “That was kind of dumb, wasn’t
it?” and “You do understand that was wrong and a violation of the
student code of conduct?” “You’re not going to repeat that stupidity
are you? Well, this is to make sure. Now stick your butt out and hold
that position until we’re done–5 licks should do it, but if you move
there could be more!!”
The licks were loud pops like gun shots and after each one she would
say, “We’re sure not done yet. Now stick that butt out and keep
still!”
Her lecturing didn’t stop when it was over either. She would smirk and
say, “I hope you know I don’t enjoy this a bit. I hope you understand
this was for your own good. My job is to make sure you never even
think about smoking another cigarette and with God’s help I hope I
have succeeded! You know what that does to your lungs? Its like a
knife in my heart every time I see a pretty girl like you polluting
their beautiful body with TAT and NICOTINE. That’s a temple God gave
you.”
“Well then, go ahead and squirt a few baby tears if you need to. Too
bad a 17-year old girl has got to get her butt whupped! I guess the
operative word is “girl.” You want to be treated like an adult, then
act like one! Now get on back to class within 2 minutes or you’ll be
back here . . .”
This actually turned out to be the most humiliating and painful few
minutes of my life. At the time I hated this coach and did not ever
want to see or speak to her again. Like some of the others have said,
12 years or so later, I have to admit it was probably very effective,
definitley far more than Saturday detention ever could have been.
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Jamess
Nov 02, 2011#34
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Im gonna share this article about How to Stop Teenage Smoking..
Long-term studies show that smoking leads to many serious health conditions. It causes high blood pressure, heart attacks, different kinds of cancers, and many more, especially if people start smoking at a young age. Not to mention that nicotine is a very potent substance that causes addiction and dependency. It’s the main reason why even if people know for a fact that cigarette smoking kills, it’s still one of the most common cause of preventable deaths each year. Parents are well justified for their concern regarding teenage smoking.
Like many other teenage disciplinary issues, convincing teens to stop smoking can be a challenge. If the habit is just starting out, parents contend with this idea in teens’ heads that smoking makes them look cool and mature. There’s also the extreme peer pressure that they are often subjected to. Teens often find their need to fit in to be a lot more compelling than their fear of their parents’ anger. At times, teens even start smoking even if they don’t really want to smoke because of peer pressure. Over time, the addiction takes hold of them and they keep on smoking.
Quitting smoking is not easy for adults, so there’s no reason to believe that it will be easy for teens too. Parents cannot make that decision for teens, and they can’t always keep an eye on them, being already almost-adults. The best way to help teens quit smoking is to make them want to quit. Asserting a little authority helps, especially if they still live with you, but ultimately, it’s important to give your teen the space they need to form their own decisions and realize the repercussions of these decisions on their own lives.
Here are a few suggested punishments for teens and parenting tips in order to help stop teenage smoking:
Discuss specific house rules on smoking – Parents can have a better chance of convincing their teens to stop smoking if they also don’t smoke at home. It would also help to impose punishment for smoking or for when your teen smells like cigarette smoke. It’s also important to punish teens when you catch them with cigarettes or lighters in their possession. Whether they admit that it’s theirs or not, saying that mere possession is unacceptable and they need to take accountability for that.
Discuss laws against underage smoking – Learn what the laws are in your state regarding underage smoking and educate your teen about this too.
Be clear on the consequences – Parents can choose to restrict their teens’ access to the internet, revoke phone privileges, reduce their allowance, or set an earlier curfew if they catch their teens smoking or smelling of cigarette smoke. Discuss these rules with your teen beforehand so that they know what’s waiting for them if they wilfully disobey house rules.
Talk to your teen – Punishments for teens can only go so far. Time will come when teens will eventually grow out of their fear of being punished by parents and realize that they can smoke if they want to. The best way to dissuade teens from smoking is to talk to them. It may be a series of talks, it may take a long time, but talking to them and telling them why you’re so concerned about their smoking habits.
Talk their language – At this stage in their life, teens are very concerned about how they look, how they smell, and how people perceive them. It may be helpful to tell your teen about how teenage smoking will eventually ruin their skin, their teeth, and give them chronic halitosis. Talking to them about heart condition, cancer, emphysema and other illnesses may have an effect, but young people don’t really tend to take these seriously because they don’t feel the effects of smoking as much as older people do.
As mentioned earlier, one of the best ways to help your teen quit smoking is to not smoke yourself. If you do smoke, seeing your doctor and asking for ways to help make quitting easier for you will help. It’s also important to keep cigarettes where your teen won’t reach them, and to not smoke where they will see you. A parent’s example is a lot more compelling than their lectures will ever be.
source:http://www.troubledteens.com/teen-drug- … oking.html
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Peter
Nov 14, 2011#35
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
Click to expand…
I stopped smoking in my late twenties, after having started in my teenage years.
I don’t tell my friends how I really managed it, for reasons that will soon be apparent.
It was with corporal punishment, administered by my partner.
My smoking used to really irritate my partner.
I had bought a school tawse earlier, more because I found the idea fun in a sexy kind of way – I had never had CP at school.
I suggested, half seriously, that if I was given a few strokes each time I smoked, it might help me to give up.
To my surprise, my partner agreed – with enthusiasm.
The slightest hint that I had smoked was rewarded with six strokes.
They were excruciating and ceased to be fun very quickly.
My efforts to hide the smell weren’t nearly as effective as I had previously believed. If I smoked, I got belted.
It took about three months, but I did stop, and I haven’t smoked since (more than 10 years).
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Peter
Nov 14, 2011#36
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
Click to expand…
I stopped smoking in my late twenties, after having started in my teenage years.
I don’t tell my friends how I really managed it, for reasons that will soon be apparent.
It was with corporal punishment, administered by my partner.
My smoking used to really irritate my partner.
I had bought a school tawse earlier, more because I found the idea fun in a sexy kind of way – I had never had CP at school.
I suggested, half seriously, that if I was given a few strokes each time I smoked, it might help me to give up.
To my surprise, my partner agreed – with enthusiasm.
The slightest hint that I had smoked was rewarded with six strokes.
They were excruciating and ceased to be fun very quickly.
My efforts to hide the smell weren’t nearly as effective as I had previously believed. If I smoked, I got belted.
It took about three months, but I did stop, and I haven’t smoked since (more than 10 years).
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Peter
Nov 14, 2011#37
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
Click to expand…
I stopped smoking in my late twenties, after having started in my teenage years.
I don’t tell my friends how I really managed it, for reasons that will soon be apparent.
It was with corporal punishment, administered by my partner.
My smoking used to really irritate my partner.
I had bought a school tawse earlier, more because I found the idea fun in a sexy kind of way – I had never had CP at school.
I suggested, half seriously, that if I was given a few strokes each time I smoked, it might help me to give up.
To my surprise, my partner agreed – with enthusiasm.
The slightest hint that I had smoked was rewarded with six strokes.
They were excruciating and ceased to be fun very quickly.
My efforts to hide the smell weren’t nearly as effective as I had previously believed. If I smoked, I got belted.
It took about three months, but I did stop, and I haven’t smoked since (more than 10 years).
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Peter
Nov 14, 2011#38
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
Click to expand…
I stopped smoking in my late twenties, after having started in my teenage years.
I don’t tell my friends how I really managed it, for reasons that will soon be apparent.
It was with corporal punishment, administered by my partner.
My smoking used to really irritate my partner.
I had bought a school tawse earlier, more because I found the idea fun in a sexy kind of way – I had never had CP at school.
I suggested, half seriously, that if I was given a few strokes each time I smoked, it might help me to give up.
To my surprise, my partner agreed – with enthusiasm.
The slightest hint that I had smoked was rewarded with six strokes.
They were excruciating and ceased to be fun very quickly.
My efforts to hide the smell weren’t nearly as effective as I had previously believed. If I smoked, I got belted.
It took about three months, but I did stop, and I haven’t smoked since (more than 10 years).
.
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Nov 14, 2011#39
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Peter,
How did the CP affect you? What was the mechanism of its action in deterring you from smoking?
Was it a simple deterrent? Did you dread it? When the urge to smoke came on were you steeled in your resolve to resist by knowing that smoking would cause pain? Or was the mechanism more complex?
Perhaps the CP was purely coincidental? If your partner had demonstrated his strong support in some other way could this have worked?
Or did the cortisol (wake-up/stress), adrenalin (fight/flight) and endorphin (euphoria) rush invoked by tawsing provide a useful substitute for the nicotine effect?
Or something else?
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Smoking and corporal punishment have gone hand in hand for a century recorded and I’m sure longer with a further search.
In light of the choice permitted involving loss of Saturdays and the strap it sound as if it would not becoming in 1914. Smoking was the precipitating offense committed at Wellington College.
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Nov 14, 2011#41
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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This is the earliest mention of school corporal punishment I have found involving smoking that I have encountered. I’m sure it went on prior to here recorded 1885 from Leighton Pennsylvania newspaper ironically called the Carbon advocate. How efficacious would be hard to know? Something by now would have killed them.
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Declan
Nov 15, 2011#42
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I have just been asked by a girl from the local school to buy her cigarettes. I have been asked by her before ( she looks like Jessica Ennis the UK athlete)but this time I asked her if she got into trouble at school for smoking, ” Yeh ” she said “I get detention all the time”. Didn’t seem to bother her at all.I think a caning would bother her though
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Nov 16, 2011#43
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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<div style=”width:100%;background-image:url(/realm/A_L_123/A_L_trg.gif);”>Hi Declan,
You said of the attitude of the young lady who was attempting to persuade you to buy cigarettes for her to detentions:
You would probably be doing her a favour, given the potential health implications and the horrendous cost of cigarettes, but tempting as it may seem I definitely do not recommend offering her a course of caning therapy to assist her in quitting the habit. Society has such strange ideas about that sort of thing!
I’m sure you don’t accede to her requests, but if perchance you do, remember that if you find yourself in Scotland and do the same thing there, unlike in England you would now be committing an offence.</div>
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Declan
Nov 16, 2011#44
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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AL
In fact I do buy her cigarettes. The shopkeeper is fully aware that I must be buying them for someone as I buy my own and then ask for a different brand. I was surprised that she handed me a £20 note and trusted me not to run away with it! I haven’t mentioned the fact that when I was at school smoking was an automatic caning offence
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Nov 16, 2011#46
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Al
I must admit that I share your doubts about buying cigarettes for young boys and girls, but I accept that i am a bit of a soft touch. I remember once I heard a real sob story from a very attractive young lady who wanted £10 for a train journey. I gave her the money, but only to find that 20 minutes later I saw her drinking a can of cider in the street! Idiot!
At least the Jess Ennis girl gives me the money in advance. She does appear to be the naughty type of girl from what I have seen and heard from her talking to her mates , and getting detentions don’t bother her.( that is the way she speaks) Best not to mention the cane , though I am tempted.
The other local girl I refer to as “bottle green” seems to be the school swot type, no chance of ever seeing her smoke
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Nov 16, 2011#47
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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, and a young person with an expensive smoking habit may have a hard time financially in the future.
Perhaps , alternately , you could suggest she becomes a city banker. that way she won’t have financial problems, ans the taxpayers will continue , as far as I can see , ad infinitum to find their bonus culture ! Or she could lend her pocket money to the Italian government and live off the interest
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Nov 16, 2011#48
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Equivalent teens where I work are forever asking me if I can “lend” a cigarette, and these are girls from the local “posh” school. They know the law alright – they can’t buy until they’re 18 but there’s nothing to stop them smoking cigarettes bought by over-18s. “I just get my mum to buy them” said one. Alcohol’s a different matter. Like the sign in the pub says, it is an offence to supply alcohol to anyone underage. There is however a minefield of conflicting information, eg parents can buy underage children certain drinks when served with a meal.
Two of the girls did once ask what happened in my era when caught smoking at school. When I mentione canes & slippers the response was “Ooo – sounds quite kinky”. To quote Ross Kemp: “I got out of there .. FAST!!”.
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Peter
Nov 16, 2011#49
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Dear KK,
I think it was just that I couldn’t face getting the belt every day.
It was sort of fun at first, in a masochistic kind of way, but that wore off pretty quickly. The strokes were done at maximum warp and stung very badly for some time. I had to accept at the beginning that having entered in to the punishment “agreement”, I could not withdraw.
I am interested that you detected that I am gay. How did you know?
Peter.
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Declan
Nov 16, 2011#50
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I would certainly not buy alcohol for anyone under 18, not that anyone has asked me. I did ask the Jess Ennis girl who looks at least 18 , if she could not buy her own cigarettes, but as she was wearing school uniform , very tight black trousers, I suppose that was out of the question. She also added “I’m very littul” ( I am trying to descibe the way she speaks , in a silly Jamaican accent , though I imagine she was born in Nottingham.
She would certainly have been caned in my day
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Nov 16, 2011#51
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Declan,
You said above:
Hmm, must be something in the Nottingham air. I am ashamed to admit that though I have never purchased cigarettes for an under-age smoker, on three occasions I have gone back into a shop and purchased the means for them to light cigarettes they already possessed. And on one of those occasions the shop was out of matches and I got stung for a disposable lighter! The last of the big spenders, that’s Another_Lurker! In each case the youngster’s disappointment at having found the one adult in the entire town who didn’t carry a light was so palpable I felt compelled to help to avoid letting the adult side down! However, mindful of other uses for matches and lighters, I retained the incendiary devices after satisfying the immediate need.
And you also said of your cigarette purchase requesting young lady:
Hmm, very tight black trousers eh? I fear that in addition to your being tempted to mention the cane my suggestion of a course of cane therapy may be influencing your thinking! Perhaps you should heed the advice given by our esteemed fellow contributor Garshin in the final sentence of his November 16 2011, 3:55 PM post above.
As for the young lady’s Jafaken accent, she probably speaks perfectly good Nottingham. However modern youngsters consider it essential to talk Afro-Caribbean at all times regardless of their ethnic origins. It is cool. ‘Cool’ of course isn’t cool any more, but I know not the current ‘in’ synonym. I have to say that IMHO she should be thoroughly caned for the Jafaken alone, never mind the smoking, but of course I am widely known for my excessively liberal views. </div>
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Jun 15, 2012#61
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I was caned for smoking on numerous occasions.
On each occasion I received the mandatory six strokes. There were only two offences that automatically warranted six strokes.
Smoking and truancy.
For all other offences the number of strokes awarded were discretionary, not that you wouldnt be given six, but it depended on the teachers request, or the heads decision. You wouldnt be given less than requested but you could be given more.
What is interesting was the degree of punishment awarded to smoking, and not even the act of smoking but the mere possession of cigarettes, an automatic six strokes.
For those that have never been caned I can assure you that being caned is excruciatingly painful, being given six strokes and being expected to voluntarily bent is serious punishment.
What is interesting is that getting caught smoking a Woodbine being the bike shed automatically earned you six. Get caught cheating, bullying, and so on and you might only get four strokes.
I was once given two strokes for failing to attend a detention, believe me the difference between two and six strokes is immense.
Being caned for smoking taught me lots of things : Dont get caught, secrecy, deviousness, irony, and most importantly the meaning of the word HYPOCRISY.
Being reported for smoking, or being caught smoking, then being caned by people who themselves smoke was a salutary lesson that was well learned, and made me what I am today.
The last time I was caned for smoking I was fifteen.
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Declan
Jun 15, 2012#62
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Interesting to note how much cigarettes have increased in price. I posted in April 2010 that cigarettes cost from £4.50 for 20. The price is now a minimum of just under £6.00 if you are lucky enough to find a shop that sells them at that price . More often over £6.00
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N.B. Room and doom were words Corpun mentioned and “big time whuppin” is usually used by an African American. This was from the latest Teachers Chatboard. This has a ring of familiarity that makes it suspects.
Re: corporal punishment in Texas?
Posted by: EmilyTW on 8/19/10
Where I went to high school in the late 90’s, female students who
chose corporal punishment got their paddling from a designated female
coach. She was a former college tennis player with a mean forehand
who has the process of administering a hard and humiliating paddling
down to an art. I only got it once, but that was enough for me and I
will never forget it.
She would take you back to a large closet in the locker room known as
the “room of doom,” which was pretty much empty except for a paddle
hanging on the wall. She would order you to empty your pockets and
bend over with your palms against the wall in a kind of strip search
position.
Instead of just administering the paddling, she would ask what you did
to “deserve the big time whuppin’ you’re about to get?” Then she
would make sarcastic remarks like, “That was kind of dumb, wasn’t
it?” and “You do understand that was wrong and a violation of the
student code of conduct?” “You’re not going to repeat that stupidity
are you? Well, this is to make sure. Now stick your butt out and hold
that position until we’re done–5 licks should do it, but if you move
there could be more!!”
The licks were loud pops like gun shots and after each one she would
say, “We’re sure not done yet. Now stick that butt out and keep
still!”
Her lecturing didn’t stop when it was over either. She would smirk and
say, “I hope you know I don’t enjoy this a bit. I hope you understand
this was for your own good. My job is to make sure you never even
think about smoking another cigarette and with God’s help I hope I
have succeeded! You know what that does to your lungs? Its like a
knife in my heart every time I see a pretty girl like you polluting
their beautiful body with TAT and NICOTINE. That’s a temple God gave
you.”
“Well then, go ahead and squirt a few baby tears if you need to. Too
bad a 17-year old girl has got to get her butt whupped! I guess the
operative word is “girl.” You want to be treated like an adult, then
act like one! Now get on back to class within 2 minutes or you’ll be
back here . . .”
This actually turned out to be the most humiliating and painful few
minutes of my life. At the time I hated this coach and did not ever
want to see or speak to her again. Like some of the others have said,
12 years or so later, I have to admit it was probably very effective,
definitley far more than Saturday detention ever could have been.
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Sep 06, 2012#64
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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In response to the many letters within this thread; at my school in Guildford in the late 50’s and early 60’s the cane was always the punishment for being caught smoking or even with cigarettes and matches in your posession.
I would have been around 12 or 13 at the time and we had a team from the Health Council (or whatever they were called then) who tried to instill upon us all, the dangers of smoking. I recall they had two large medical sample jars, one containg a healthy lung and the other a diseased lung from a long-term smoker. We were all made aware of the dangers of smoking, before finally being address by our Headmaster, informing us all in no uncertain terms that smoking was forbidden in his school and the punishment would be both severe and painful.
About two weeks later he adressed the entire school and asked if everyone had seen the recent presentation on smoking and asked for anyone who had not seen it, through illness or non attendance on that day to stand-up. A few pupils stood who had not been present on that day and were told they would be given the opportunity to see the lecture either at another school or somewhere else close-by.
The Headmaster then stated that as we’d all attended the lecture and had seen the flim show and displays, we’d better all see the consequences for smoking, he immediately held up the school punishment cane which was conveniently placed on the rostrum. He informed us all that there would be no exceptions; anyone in posession of cigarettes or caught smoking them on or off the school premises would receive six with the cane, regardless of age or whether boy or girl, and that those who he’d punished for smoking would have a letter sent home to their parents advising them that their son or daughter had been caught and punished in occordance with the school rule.
Also anyone caned for this offence was further shamed by being made to stand-up in front of the entire school at morning assembly. With ten days or so several culprits stood before the school the Headmaster telling his pupils to turn round and see who these people are; these are the people who have disobeyed me, these are the fools who have let your school down and lost their names; ask these people at break-time what six of the cane feels like, then think seriously as to whether you want to be caught and punished as well.
My sister was caned twice at that school for smoking and yes it did work, as far as I’m aware she’s never smoked since, not even as an adult. Six with the cane was only given for serious offences, smoking, truantcy, or fighting.
Boys were caned by the school Headmaster and girls were caned by the senior Mistress, a real battleaxe of a spinster who’d been teaching all her life, she was exceptionally strict and the girl’s were terrified of her. Any female pupils playing-up during a lession or being defiant or disruptive, were warned they would be sent to her; that one warning alone immediately generated good and better behaviour! One of the subjects she taught was divinity and se once slapped my face from behind for not paying attention, I thought she’d knocked my head off and her one slap really hurt and stung, she had hands like a wrestler.
I was caned for being a truant and that was dreadfullly painful. I stood before the Headmaster who gave me a dressing down and highlighting his disgust with me. I was told to remove my blazer and he opened a steel locker in his office in which several upright cardboard tubes contained many canes. He asked me how old I was and duly selected a cane. I was fourteen then and I believe this allowed him to use a heavier and slightly longer cane on me. I was told to stand behind the back of a ‘Chesterfield’ type amchair and then bend right over its back. The Headmaster eased me forward, telling me to grasp the cushion with bost hands. I was then informed that this would hurt me far more than I realised and it would be a painful lesson for me.
It was, and was definately one of the most painful canings I’ve ever experienced, when ordered to stand up, I immediately grasped both cheeks of my bottom trying to squeeze and ease the canes dreadful sting, I was immediatly told to stand-up straight and put my hands by my side, which seemed almost impossible. My Headmaster then proceeded to write the entry of my punishment into the school punishment register, informing me that the entry would be for breach of school rule and truantcy.
I recall going home that evening with a really sore bottom and immediatly going to my bedroom to look at my bottom in the dressing table mirror.
Enough said, the cane had done its work and I learnt from it!
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Sep 20, 2012#65
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I found the slipper and cane very effective punishments at school. You knew you had been punished – it certainly made you think, especially when fully deserved.
So surely corporal punishment is appropriate for lots of misbehaviour, not just smoking, but drinking too much or when you shouldn’t, and any inappropriate behaviour in fact.
Many of the so-called “hoodies” around today (those in trouble) and the like would no doubt benefit from a good whacking from an authority figure – like a headmaster, teacher, policeman, whoever.
Just my two pennies worth…..
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Brit. J. Preventive and Social Medicine (1965) 19, 18-23
SMOKING, CANING, AND DELINQUENCY IN A SECONDARY MODERN SCHOOL J. W. PALMER
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In a secondary modem school in which caning was used as a punishment for smoking, no evidence has been found that the punishment had a reformative effect; it is suggested that a controlled trial would be necessary to find evidence for such an effect.
Caned boys were considerably heavier smokers than uncaned boys.
26 per cent. of the boys studied had been classified as delinquent in police records by a date at which their mean age was 15 years 4 months.
Delinquent boys were (statistically) significantly heavier smokers than non-delinquents, but the difference was not as marked as that between caned and uncaned boys.
There was an apparent decline in smoking over a year. This may be due to errors of recall but is more likely to be real; if so it may be the effect of cancer propaganda.
There was no (statistically) significant association between delinquency and being caned for smoking.
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Mar 12, 2013#67
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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This is an very interesting topic which I would like to add my two cents worth on several fronts.
<strong>Part I: My personal experience, and what can be gleaned from this.</strong>
Like most kids, I started regular experimental smoking around the age of 12. I had a friend who was my age (within 3 days), and he routinely stole a pack form his fathers carton at home, then we would go outside somewhere to a safe hidden area in the neighbourhood to smoke. In truth, I had smoked an occassional cigarette from the age of 9 with another boy in the village.
By the age of 15, I was already addicted. It was relatively easy to buy cigarettes as the legal age at that time as 16, but virtually no one challenged you buying a pack. Remember, it was also customary for smoking parents to send their children on an errand to pick up smokes for them, so not much second thought was given to this.
Smoking would have been a strapping offence in Senior Public school (grades 7-8 and ages 12-14) but I was not yet hooked enough to attempt to smoke at or near the school. I regret I wasnt dumb enough to do this and get caught for it, for reasons that shall become apparent shortly. Oddly, you <em>could </em>smoke on the school bus, and many did, even the driver!
When I went to high school, (students who turn 15 in the year start grade 9 (high school) in the fall of the same year), the school had a designated smoking area for students. Even if you were underage, no one seemed to be bothered about it as teachers often came to join the students there for a quick smoke between classes. Surely, they knew I was not yet 16 but none of the smoking teachers bothered about it. Even if they did bother, there was regrettably no CP in our high school, so there was no real deterrent from that perspective.
I quit smoking January of last year, about 39 years after smoking became regular at 12. I stayed quit until the summer, when mother-in-law, who smokes, came to visit from overseas for the summer. That got me started again stupidly thinking that as soon as she leaves, Ill just quit. But, of course I didnt. I still smoke right now and am on a plan to quit shortly, which I must now do one way or the other. I am determined to break free from this horrible disgusting deathtrap, and I know how hard the first weeks and months will be once I embark on it. The last time I would have rather cut off my right arm than endure the excruciating withdrawal pains that were to come from this insidious drug.
Why do I say regrettable above? My parents became aware of my possible smoking around my age 14 – I wished they had detected this at the age of 9. However, by the early 70’s, because of media events, publicised CP bans and the demonizing of the practice on TV, by this time my parents shifted to more progressive disciplinary methods on me. Those ultimately proved extremely ineffective and utterly useless, and may be a contributing factor unintentionally assigning me to a premature death sentence.
I cannot speak for anyone else, I can only tell you how my mind and response mechanism works. What should have happened immediately upon their discovery of this was that they told me on no uncertain terms that smoking is utterly unacceptable. I highly regret that I was not given (and naturally would have submitted to as I was generally obedient to my parents disciplining) an immediate bare-bottom leathering with sufficient intensity to make an anticipated repeat of the same, if I smoked again, a most unpleasant consequence. Also, there should have been a promise that every repeat would swiftly draw the same result. That may not have worked for everyone, but I can tell you, having not yet been sufficiently addicted, that would have been it for me. The deterrent value would emphatically have made me not take the risk of a repeat.
Odd isn’t it? Many people go through life with “issues” because of some CP experience they’ve had, and here I have issues becasue I was denied the benefit of something that emphatically should have been done.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Mar 12, 2013#69
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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The paper by Palmer (1965) cited above is unusually easy to read. It tries to draw conclusions from rather sparse and subjective data. We are not told how much caning unrelated to smoking was going on. In all likelihood, all breaches of discipline were subject to caning. I suspect the canings were more aimed at stopping smoking at school or in school uniform rather than to stop smoking totally. Only a very naïve headmaster would believe otherwise.
When I was in school many men but few women smoked. The few women who did smoke tended to do it in private – it was considered unladylike to do it in public. The age of majority was 21 and the change from child to adult much more sudden than now. Children had easy access to tobacco but very few openly smoked until after they left school.
Schools and society greatly deplored smoking by children mainly on the basis it would stunt our growth. At school, the chief objection to smoking was that it was against the rules. Smokers were subject to strapping or caning, often by teachers with nicotine-stained fingers. The detection rate was probably lower than it might have been as smokers are poor at detecting tobacco smoke. This was before the true dangers to health were established.
I am sure that the use of CP delayed many from becoming addicted and it certainly ensured there was little or no public smoking by children. The use of CP never cured any addict but it certainly made the first cigarette more unpleasant for some and helped delay smoking becoming a habit.
I recall being surveyed as to our smoking habits at primary school. The teacher left the room and a stranger handed out questionnaires. We did not give our names. After, my classmates boasted about the answers they had given. Many had claimed to be heavy smokers even though they were non smokers. Reports based on self-reporting need to be viewed very cautiously.
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Mar 12, 2013#70
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi <strong>KK</strong>,
Where you say, “<em>I suspect the canings were more aimed at stopping smoking at school or in school uniform rather than to stop smoking totally</em>” .
Yes, I can agree that it may have been the case in your schooling systems and era. However, here it was less about “school rules” and more about “moral instruction” so hence, the intention <em>was</em> to get them to stop, and not just stop smoking at school (whether that happened or not is another story). Your comment lends into my assertions: if the child is young enough, there is a greater chance of deterring smoking entirely, but as they get older and “wiser”, it is probably less effective in getting them to stop (and if they are addicted, then nearly 0% chance of getting them to stop), but they learn not to smoke in situations where they have a high risk of being caught (around school or being in school uniform, etc). That’s a difference.
Nothing is fool-proof, and there will always be an element who successfully maneuvers around any rules or sanctions one can dream up. I expect that element to become larger adn more adept with age.
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Mar 13, 2013#71
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I would be very interested to know if Doctor Dominum canes for smoking at his school, how many incidents there were separated by age-of-offender, and what recidivism rates have been experienced.
I’ll see what data I can pull together when I have some spare time. It should not be too difficult, but it’s hard to get motivated when I know that whatever data I provide certain individuals will seek to rubbish it.
Smoking was, long ago now, classified as a ‘mandatory caning’ offence in our school – one of a small number of offences for which the cane is always meant to be used. In fact, there’s always rooms for exceptions – absolutism is never a good idea in these cases – but, the cane has generally been part of any response to caning. But the key term there is ‘part of any response’.
The recidivism rate for smokers has always been low, but how much of that can be directly attributed to the use of the cane is questionable, in my opinion. Because the cane was not used in isolation – except, normally, in those cases where it was believed the problem had been identified early or where it was believed a boy was only a very occasional smoker. In those cases, the use of the cane, and the threat of further canings does seem to be a strong deterrent. But in cases where addiction is already a reality, the cane alone is unlikely to be very successful. Where it is useful in those cases, is that it often makes the boy willing to take the other options available to him more seriously. If we believe a boy has a serious smoking problem, he will be required to enter into a program designed to help him stop smoking, but it’s up to him whether or not he takes full advantage of that. I’ve found, consistently, that’s he’s much more likely to do so, if he knows the alternative is the cane. It’s very much of there being an easy way and a hard way for us to try and stop you smoking – and by making the hard way very unpleasant, the boy is more likely to take the easy way (especially when it’s also made clear that if we believe you are taking the program seriously and doing your best, we’re much more likely to be sympathetic to a lapse – if we know you’re not doing your best, we can’t give you any leeway.
In the end, these combined approaches mean that repeat offences have been fairly rare – and I think the cane is important in that. But I don’t think it would work even one quarter as well, if it was the only thing being used.
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Mar 13, 2013#72
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Thank you <strong>Doctor Dominum</strong>, “<em>I’ll see what data I can pull together when I have some spare time. It should not be too difficult, but it’s hard to get motivated when I know that whatever data I provide certain individuals will seek to rubbish it</em>.”
Anything you can provide in this regard would be very mush appreciated. I guaranty I’ll not be judgemental on the figures, I simply want to see real-time experiences from elsewhere to see how, and in what way, they may confirm or differ data I have seen. Because of how SCP was used here, the records I can see invariably end at age 13 since they come from elementary or middle schools that end at Grade 8, so I am lacking anything that regards to older pupils. As I’m sure you can appreciate, getting access to real and useable data is extremely difficult because it is not only access to information and privacy concerns, but you are often dealing with rather dim-witted people who ideologically oppose allowing any access to such records on suspicion that you must have some “agenda”. It’s a shame to have archived valuable data to mine, and never actually analyze it for any constructive purpose.
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Mar 14, 2013#73
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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My parents were both smokers but I never took up the habit, I had my first and only cigarette when I was 28 largely because I was seriously drunk. I think that I never smoked because my parents did and I hated the smell especially on my clothes and when I went to pubs I hated that my clothes smelled of smoke as well.
I think that people took up smoking at a particular age because of the thrill of doing something naughty, like taking something from your parents without permission etc… Of course once the addictive nature of cigarettes took hold you were smoking for a long period.
I had other things that I could do when I wanted a thrill some of which meant that I did not sit comfortably for a few days after the event, would corporal punishment have worked if I had have been caught smoking? I don’t think so in fact I think I might have continued to smoke.
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Mar 14, 2013#74
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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May 11, 2013#75
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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A 1938 creative solution to an age old problem in Monterey TN. Upper left hand column. Jenny take note.
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May 11, 2013#76
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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<div style=”width:100%;background-image:url(/realm/A_L_123/A_L_trg.gif);”>Hi American Way,
I am truly saddened that you felt it incumbent upon you to take the risk of publicising Monterey High School, Tennessee and thus possibly rendering one of our most valuable contributors so consumed with rage that she may be unable to post for several days! A school where:
Girls are not allowed to smoke at all.
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Boys are allowed to smoke, provided they use the specially provided (and doubtless comfortably furnished) smoking room.
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Boys are let off lightly with a severe spanking and dismissal from school if caught smoking other than in the smoking room.
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Though this is not explicitly stated, girls caught smoking anywhere are undoubtedly subject to some terrible and interminable punishment such as detention.</li>
Time does not diminish the iniquity of such a dreadful institution, but it is indeed fortunate that this report dates from 1938, otherwise the magnitude of the resulting scandal would be incalculable!
And now I shall don my radiation suit and retire to my nuclear bunker! </div>
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hi Another_Lurker
Those rules on smoking are very clearly sexist but, as is often the case, it’s not clear which sex is treated less favourably.
Schools that, de facto, allowed girls to smoke didn’t really do them any favours in the long term so the Monterey High School wasn’t really doing the boys any favours.
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You Cannot Argue With Success. Smoking and Spanking are good for your healthy. Patricia Morison born 1915
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Patricia Morison in her early thirties.
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2012. Still beautiful. Don’t laugh. Princess Diana and Mother Teresa passed within days. Who would you rather be on the day of judgment.
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Spanking. B/W and Color.
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Another case of an actress spanked as a fountain of youth is now a young 90-year-old, Ann Jeffries who was violently spanked eight times a week. Cole Porter offered her ‘Kiss Me Kate.’ She spent two years and 887 consecutive performances in that classic musical. I suppose all that spanking help reduce her derriere.
Anne Jeffreys, star of “Kiss Me Kate,” couldn’t agree that her derriere needed reduction.”Mr. Roon,” she said, “is looking at my bustle, not me. I wear one in the show because in one scene I get a violent spanking. I am spanked eight times a week. It’s well pounded.”
First Column.
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She was asked by Cole Porter to take the place of Patricia Morison who took 1,077 spankings from late 1948 to early 1951.
Jeffries was not only spanked on stage but by her real life husband on television in the popular series, Topper.
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In the early 1950’s wife spanking was not that uncommon though the age of the “submissive wife” was coming to an end. Wife spanking scenes took place in a few television sit-coms including “Topper” which had a scene where Robert Sterling playing the role of George Kirby spanks his wife (in real life) Ann Jeffries who is George Kirby’s wife Marian over the knee.
Robert Sterling passed at 88 in 2006 and they were married for 55 years.
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The rather nice scene if you avoid the portals as a caveat you need only Google.
The Memories of a Strict Uncle: TV Spankings: Topper
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Nov 14, 2013#79
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I Google Patricia Morison and she came up and that was the thread I attempted to post but when was taken to this site. C’est la vie.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Nov 15, 2013#81
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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WARNINGEAL,
Describing something you disagree with as PC is very un-PC.
Rather than engaging in such why did you not warn me my shorts were ripped? It was not my fault I fell off my bike – there were no warning signs that the washout was too wide. I was distracted by pain so did not notice the rip.
P.S. I am still waiting for my keys to materialise.
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Nov 15, 2013#82
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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KK wrote: I am still waiting for my keys to materialise.
After returning from holiday in September, I lost track of one sock. It was not one that had any great value but nevertheless it was irritating to lose it.
Last week I was getting ready to leave the house when I noticed a bulge in my shirt just above my waist. It’s cause – the missing sock! By what means it got to the place I found it is a complete mystery. If it was somehow lodged in the shirt, which had been washed and ironed, why didn’t I notice it? Why did it not feel strange as I put the shirt on?
Things happen in this world that we do not understand – especially when we reach pensionable age! Do not despair, your keys will appear, probably tucked in between the pages of a book – or in the fridge (you did look in the fridge didn’t you?)
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Nov 15, 2013#85
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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hcj,
You should not go about boasting about loosing one sock. I have lost many. I buy five or seven pairs at a time.
It took be a while for me to realise that if I lost a blue sock I should retain its mate as I was bound to loose another blue sock within a few weeks. The two orphans could then be paired. At the moment, several orphans are waiting.
I blame sock loss on the tooth fairy. She sneaks about the house gathering teeth or, if none are available, socks, ballpoint pens and the like. Occasionally, you may come upon her nest of ballpoint pens but I have never found where she hides socks. The fairy, or her sister, frequents the laboratory stealing pens, spatulas and magnetic stirring bars which also tend to show strong tidal flows.
All most annoying.
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Nov 15, 2013#86
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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KK:
You are mistaken; things are irretrievably lost only rarely. I have “lost” all sorts of things over the years, only to rediscover them days, weeks or even months later. Careful thought then suggests an obvious reason why they have turned up in the particular place they have been found.
Have you, as hcj has suggested, looked in the fridge for your sock?
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Nov 15, 2013#87
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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The vacuum cleaner is another sock thief suspect. I give my socks a hard time and sometimes discard single socks that have developed holes. I like strong cheeses which could confound sock searches of my refrigerator.
Corporal punishment has been used to deter smoking at school or at least to ensure it is kept from public view. Its efficacy against addiction is uncertain although apparently effective in Russia. I wonder if it works against sock loss?
The penalty for smoking at my school, or in school uniform, was four of the best. There were few canings for smoking. The canings worked.
Losing socks is, I assert, not as serious as smoking and I am the one who buys them so already suffer a financial penalty. The penalty for sock loss needs to be sufficiently severe to instil a strong desire to avoid it and there also needs to be a high probability of detection. Perhaps I need my sock drawer inspected weekly. Any suggestions as to penalties?
Perhaps I should try alternating months of punishment and no punishment to see if there is a deterrent effect. Unfortunately, I do not think a double-blind trial is possible.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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EAL,
I do not understand. Why should calling attention to videos showing the immortality of mountain bikers harm the reputation of the sport?
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Hello everybody ,
I have just returned from parts foreign, and must IMMEDIATELY leap to the defense of the single sock syndrome. Do you realize for those of us with prosthetic legs how inconvenient, expensive and downright annoying it is to be only able to buy socks in PAIRS. Unless you subscribe to the Heather Mills McCartney school of make a prosthesis look like a ‘genuine leg ‘ ( most men wear the sketal frame variety for a whole number of reasons ), then you only require ONE sock at a time.
Single socks are definitely discriminated against by my local laundry who lose them much more frequently than when they are sent in odd numbers not in pairs and I’m sure that in some forgotten part of some UN charter there is a statement of rights for single socks, or maybe this is entirely the fault of the Abrahamic religions, or is another dimension of Foucault’s abuse of power in statist systems , or even just another metaphor for the attention of Derrida.
Whatever the case you can rely upon me to determine the philosophical truth ( except I can’t ever have the ‘up’ on anyone like that ),once the time difference has worn off. So have an excellent break Carl and mats. At least I’m back (probably when you least wanted).
And thanks to the men in black for dropping me off here in front of the computer !
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Welcome back prof n. I have had to do the yeoman’s work of posting during some dry periods while you were away.
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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<div style=”width:100%;background-image:url(/realm/A_L_123/A_L_trg.gif);”>Hello KK,
I fear that I have not made myself clear. Your videos, and indeed your own experiences as recounted here, certainly do not detract from mountain biking in general, quite the contrary in fact! However in respect of my climbing partner’s efforts to induce me to take up the sport they act as a great disincentive. This is because I am <s>a wimp</s> addicted to self-preservation wherever possible.
The individual in question assures me that one can in fact practise mountain biking without indulging in such heroics. However he is a noted sandbagger who has been known to claim that it’s fun climbing at a local quarry where the routes are nothing but piles of tottering blocks piled one on top of the other. His best route there can’t be repeated because it fell down shortly after he managed to get up it. Further, he frequently injures himself mountain biking, so all in all I take his assurances with a pinch of salt!
Now those socks. I must agree with my very greatly esteemed fellow contributor Alan Turing that the vast majority of things are only rarely subject to complete loss and that missing items generally turn up in circumstances which lend themselves to a logical explanation of how they became misplaced. However, I must state absolutely categorically that socks are an exception to this. I have no idea where they go, but go they do, and wherever it is, mine never return thence.
The mystical powers of washing machines and dryers are I believe somehow implicated in the problem, but one can never prove this, because if one counts all the socks in and then counts them back out again there are never any discrepancies. It is only when this check is omitted due to haste or distraction of some sort that one sometimes subsequently finds that a sock has gone AWOL. Not always by any means, but sufficiently often to cause annoyance, especially as the price of a good pair of socks is now more than three times my weekly wage in 1964!
You say you have a stock of odd socks of various colours waiting for further losses to bring them a partner and restore them to use. I commend to you the Another_Lurker system, which is to buy socks of only one style and colour for general every day wear. Rather than regarding general purpose socks as a number of pairs one can then think of them as a pool from which any two individuals will satisfy sartorial requirements, and individual sock loses are not quite so annoying.
Obviously an eye must be kept on the degree of wear of individuals in the pool and a pair of replacements purchased when necessary, but the overall sock asset utilisation is much improved because socks are never inactive awaiting a pair. Clearly this is not readily applicable to specialist socks, such as walking or sports socks where numbers held are generally smaller, but in my experience they are not the socks that get lost. Walking socks in particular are I think too thick and heavy for even the most determined washer or dryer to digest. </div>
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Nov 17, 2013#92
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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<div style=”width:100%;background-image:url(/realm/A_L_123/A_L_trg.gif);”>Hello Prof.n,
Welcome back, you have been sadly missed! I urge you very strongly not to waste your valuable time seeking the philosophical truth about socks and their propensity to transmogrify into …… well, whatever they do transmogrify into! Instead I commend to you the re-establishment of communications with our friends at TWP, from whom nothing has been heard for 13 days now. I feel rather guilty about this, but I have been incommunicado myself for a period and on my return I was unable to think of anything likely to be of interest in that area. Possibly your recent travels in the former colonies may have equipped you with a suitable topic?</div>
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Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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I have just discovered that the dark matter that accounts for most of the mass in the universe is made up of unpaired socks. It seems that socks can quantum tunnel. They can be in more than one place at a time, or in no place. Attempts to track them are stymied by the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principal. Any attempt to find unpaired socks affects their location. They are rarely where you look. The same may well apply to keys and other similar quantum-active objects.
Socks and keys can pass spontaneously through solid objects. They tend to become trapped inside refrigerators because of the low thermal energy there. No human or fairy intervention is required.
All this may seem very strange but quantum mechanics has proved very successful in explaining the world and in predicting events in advance. It seems to be real even if weird.
Albert E played a major role in the discovery of quantum mechanics but was not keen on the results. I do not think he liked losing his socks.
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You Cannot Argue With Success. Smoking and Spanking are good for your healthy. Patricia Morison born 1915
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Patricia Morison in her early thirties.
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2012. Still beautiful. Don’t laugh. Princess Diana and Mother Teresa passed within days. Who would you rather be on the day of judgment.
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Spanking. B/W and Color.
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Some of this is old hat but most is new.
Patricia Morison most spanked thespian in history. Is still singing as of July 27, 2015 at 100.
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Spanking didn’t do her no harm.
She got well over a baker’s dozen spanks and Alfred Drake made them seem as if they were vigorous ones.
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Salient details. Drake had a gentle technique of mauling her.
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The bird is over the top but what a songbird. One cannot find someone sharper than her at 98. With Kiss Me Kate Broadway’s gain was Hollywood’s lost. So in Love 2013.
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One is only left to wonder if Judy Garland landed Morrison’s rolle considering her singing talent.
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So In Love. 1948.
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Review from the first performance.
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Historical information.
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Aug 01, 2015#95
Young people are told that smoking is bad for their health, and can cause early death.
This is of no concern to a teenager who does not think much beyond the next summer holidays ….
That the death may be slow and painful is no extra concern.
Do we tell them that:
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Do we ever warn them that
Death is likely to occur at a time when you will be in love: this means you may have a family. You dying early will be a disadvantage to your children. When you begin to know that you are dying, you will feel a great loss – you will not live to see your children grow up. You dying will stunt them emotionally. They will be very sad that you are dying, depending on how mature they are, their stability will be shaken by losing you their parent so soon.
Smoking in the Family Home, causes health hazard for your partner, and your children. Because they have to breath in the smoke you exhale, they are at risk too. Not as much as you, but about 25%. That is they are at risk even though they do not smoke.
Do we warn them again and again
Smoking is an addiction. You can’t just give it up when you feel like it. Some people, just a few, do manage to, but lots and lots more cannot. They try, but they cannot. When you are addicted, nicotine and smoke become part of your body, you cannot function without them.
Then there is the cost:
Do we warn young people about the financial cost ?
In UK cigarettes cost about 50p each. 20 a day is £10 a day. that is £70 a week, about £300 a month 365 days of the year, at £10 a day, cost £3,650 a year. That is a lot of money
what could you do with an extra £3650 every year ?
that is an extra £3650 EVERY year!
Buy a better car
Have 2 or 3 extra holidays a year ?
Live in a better house…….
Its double that if you smoke 40 a day. £7,300
60 a day? . . . that’s over £10,000 a year, and after tax, so you’d have to earn even more !!
What a waste of Money, as well as a waste of Life.
Recently I was introduced by a friend, to his daughter Sandra (not her real name) and family. Sandra lives in a reasonable family home, with her husband and children. In these hard times, she has recently started another job, 2 evenings a week. Also, her husband works a Saturday, when he can, just so the family has a little cash to make life interesting. Nothing unusual about that!
But Sandra also smokes! She is 40ish, and smokes 20 to 50 a day. That is £10 a day minimum, probably £100 a week, £5000, £10,000 a year ….. The house stinks of tobacco, the children hate it, the husband hates it, the cat hates it, and all the paintwork is darkened by the brown tinge of nicotine.
Her worried father tells me that Sandra was expelled from school in her mid teens, because she smoked.
She never completed her education.
If only the school could have helped Sandra to give up smoking before she became addicted.
Elsewhere on this Forum, “Jenny” has said of her experiences of being caned, that had she been given Six-of-the-Best the first time she was caned for smoking, it may well have stopped her, before she became an established smoker. Instead she had a less severe 4, which all though it did hurt, did not make sufficient impression on her to change her mind.
She got Six-of-the-best later on, but by then she was addicted.
Surely “Six-of-the-Best” to stop a girl becoming an established smoker, is Appropriate Corporal Punishment ?
And this story of Amber (Amber is one of the “Teachers Who Paddle”) was quoted yesturday evening by American Way on the thread: “An excellent High School Paddling Story”
Amber on 3/30/10
Where I went, a suburban high school near Dallas, students who elect
corporal punishment over Sat school make an “appointment” with a
designated coach by entering their name on a sign-up sheet in the PE
office. There is a male and female designated coach. Available times
include before and after school and lunch.
Students generally get 3 licks for minor infractions like tardies or
cell phones, and 5 licks for more serious infractions like tobacco.
These can be pretty serious paddlings. I got 5 licks for smoking in
11th grade. That was 7 years ago and when I smell cigarette smoke, my ass still hurts!
I haven’t smoked since.
It was probably the most appropriate punishment I ever received and if used routinely on high school kids who smoke, would probably literally save lives.
Call me old school at age 24, but I think the best thing that could
happen to education would be to have a well used paddle hanging on the wall of every high school classroom.
Now I know that some of you will say you were canned 10 to 20 times for smoking while at school, and each time it was a proper six, and it really really hurt ….. but it never stopped you from smoking.
Was this a battle of wills ? Were you already addicted ?
I don’t think that canning for the same reason on 20 occasions is “Appropriate” Corporal Punishment at all ! If Corporal Punishment is not working, its highly inappropriate.
If a child shows no change in his or her behaviour after 3 (?) such severe canings, then some other punishment must be tried. Corporal Punishment does not work on every child.
Here is another success story, found by looking on this forum, after a search on “Smoking”:
Lisa Harrison
09/06/2007 I was caned twice at my Wiltshire (English) senior school in the mid eighties and my word it hurt.
I should have learned after my 1st smoking offence (2 on my hand) but didn’t.
I knew what was coming 2nd time and the wait outside the heads office was indescribable.
This time it was 3 on my behind and lots of tears…I no longer smoke!
Paddling or caning should be legal on both sides of the pond for society’s sake.
Smoking is such a waste of life and a waste on money, every effort should be made to prevent children from becoming smokers.
PS – mercifully I personally never liked smoking, I did try is a few times in my teens, but never enjoyed it, and easily gave it up. . . . . Toby-John
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Olivia De Havilland on July 1, 2016 becomes 100-years-old. She may very well had been spanked in 1938 by Dick Powell.
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Olivia De Havilland comes close to be case of a film star that survived the longest after an “almost” spanking in Hard To Get 1938. From a 19-year-old to a 99-year-old. Could it be that spanking and smoking are good for your health? A rather unorthodox theory. In fairness people did smarten up and she may have likely stopped many years before. I’m not working for the tobacco company not have I ever smoked.
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She was among the 13 avowed spinsters that willingly subjected themselves to an oaken persuader in 1936. She made the vow at 19 and broke it twice.
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Warner knew how to market films and made the most of one swat on a very, very lovely bottom. The very, very best kind.
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Great fun at 8:00; 12:00 and 12:30.
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A brief mention of censorship and the so-called “spanking scene” is found in the second column.
Warners slipped a fast line past the censors in the spanking scene between Dick Powell and Olivia de Haviland.
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Reviews were positive for that screwball comedy genre.
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Some Stills.
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She sure was a beauty.
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An interesting story about her.
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Locally, in the old days, smoking at school or in school uniform carried an automatic penalty of four strokes of the cane, boys only of course as girls were not caned in those benighted days. Very few women smoked at that time and certainly not in public. I can’t ever remember any smoking canings at all. Few kids started until they left school.
Nowadays only the very stupid start smoking and only the immoral supply tobacco to the young. I very much doubt if those not deterred by the dreadful penalties of smoking will be much affected by the threat of immediate pain even if it were allowed. There could be some advantage in displacing tobacco from schools. Those that provide tobacco to the young for financial gain deserve something worse than caning. Perhaps they should be cast into a pit of burning tobacco?
Tobacco bans are nothing new.
The Washington Times. November 30, 1906
Cleveland Principal Merriam and four of his best biffs with his stout paddle.
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Aug 18, 2018#97
December Icelanders now smoke less than any other nation: Cigarette smoking collapsed since 2008
March 2, 2018.
http://icelandmag.is/article/icelanders … apsed-2008
Spanking works and this is why!
February 19, 1902.
http://idnc.library.illinois.edu/cgi-bi … ing——-
Prior posted.
November 30, 1906.
Four good “biffs” with a stout paddle.
https://chroniclingamerica.loc.gov/lccn … 78%2C5018/
December 2006.
Fewer butts with with paddled ones.
Search. “Teacher forum paddling and smoking.”
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This was taken from a site (Google above to access more accounts) that’s less reliable
and not culled to stop SCP as the most recent list of tweets proffered by Dr Stacey Patton.
Reggie Thompson on 12/02/04 (smoking cheerleaders spotted)
At our school they would be given demerits for smoking on the cheerleading team. If it
was a first offense they would be given the choice of 10 days in
ISS or five swats. a second offense would be one week suspension and 30 demerits
which would put them off the squad. We recently had four cheerleaders caught smoking
on one of our buses. They each received 18 demerits and all four girls chose the paddle
instead of ISS.
(Teacher?) Jane A. on 10/20/06
I am teaching for my first year here in south Ms. school teaching 8th grade and 9th
grade English. This past Wednesday two of my ninth grade girls I guess decided to not
attend my 5th period English class. One of the teachers who was on their free period
caught them coming back on campus 15 min. before the class would be over. She
brought them to me. I then had them go to our Asst. Principal with a note stating the
reason. I was shocked that he immediately felt this was a call for corporal punishment.
our manual states that corporal punishment will always be the last resort after other
disciplines have been used. These girls are good students who I think decided to make a
wrong choice. He had me to come to the office which meant I had to leave my 6th
period class and when I was brought both girls were crying and then he informed me
that their parents had been called and they were going to receive 5 licks with a wooden
paddle that would be administered by him to their buttocks which I would be their
witness. He also went on to say they would write a 3,000 word theme the subject would
be chosen by me and to be graded by me. I asked him if I could discuss the situation
with him in private. He told me he would after the girls were paddled. He then instructed
one of the girls to step out of the office and wait til she was called in. Then he had me
stand in front of the other girl as she was bent over. I was to hold her shoulders as he
paddled her. He gave her 5 very hard licks and she cried the whole time. I am appalled
that this took place with no input from me as a professional teacher.
(Victim Advocate?) Ashley on 12/07/06
I was paddled in 11th grade for smoking, and don’t feel like I was ushered into some
world of violence. It was better than sitting out of class for ISS for three days and
probably more effective. It hurt like crazy and I got a reminder every time I sat down for
about 5 days. I never smoked at school again and rarely elsewhere. I think if every teen
who is caught smoking underage was paddled, there would be far less smokers and the
savings in terms of costs and health care would be enormous. Of course, the bible
supports corporal punishment, and teens have been paddled for decades in Alabama and
elsewhere–because it works.
Dan on 12/08/06
You say ‘It was better than sitting out of class for ISS for three days and probably more
effective.’ How come? You chose what for you was the less painful
alternative. Surely by
your own reasoning sitting out of class for ISS for three days would have been more
unpleasant and therefore more effective?
(Victim Advocate?) Ashley on 12/08/06
It was better than ISS because I was on the volleyball team and if you got ISS you were
off the team. It was actually the coach of the team who administered the paddling, and
she was about 5’10” and 230 pounds. She was known to paddle harder than anyone in
the school, including the VP and men’s coaches. It was after practice, and all I had was
my gym shorts on. When I felt the first lick, I thought I’d made a big mistake by not
taking ISS even if that was the end of my sports career. By the last lick (5th), my butt
felt like it was literally on fire. When I got home and looked in the mirror over an hour
later, it was still bright red. Yes, I do remember the pain every time I think about
smoking, and that was over 3 years ago. It was the most effective punishment I ever
received and may have saved me from eventual cancer.
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bripuk
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Aug 18, 2018#99
Smoking was considered a very serious offence at my school and if a boy was caught it would result in 6 strokes of the cane and a letter to the parents. This sanction applied even if a boy was reported by a prefect for smoking on the way to and from school. On one occasion the head of PE caught a 4th year boy red handed smoking behind the gym. He was given the choice of being sent to the headmaster with the inevitable outcome or 8 strokes of the plimsoll. He opted for the slipper for which he had to change into PE shorts. After seeing his backside a couple of hours afterwards I’m not sure he made the right decision. Hopefully it dissuaded him from smoking for the rest of his life.
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Jamesinshorts16
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Aug 19, 2018#100
Good school bripuk but the PE teacher was out of order circumventing the 6 and letter to parents
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bripuk
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Aug 19, 2018#101
I once endured a 4 stroke slippering from the same teacher clad only in PE shorts. The pain was far worse than any of the canings I received and left a raised welt on my backside that subsequently turned into a bruise. It hurt for a couple of days afterwards and made sitting on my bike difficult.
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kevinont
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Aug 19, 2018#102
If we got caught smoking at age 12/13 we got suspended right away,then of course a big no no at home, if that happened/would have got belt for that(even though at times both parents smoked…hmmm)….then went to high school were they had a smoking area! Go figure!