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I came out to my wife in Feb this year.
Thought it’d be ok as I have dressed in her clothes in the past for fun with her and sometimes at her request.
I did it in a very badly written letter, (even though it took 3 days to write!)
She was in tears and thought I was gay and so on
It was the end of us.
So I showed her a website.
She looked thru it and found about all those who were living double lives and not being open with their partners.
It went down like a lead balloon.