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As others have said using the ladies even in straight venues has never been a problem for me.
Actually being a vain bitch, I do like to admire myself if there are good mirrors and flattering lights!
I don’t like asking the staff if its OK to go to the ladies first, because one has to expose ones TG status.
You never know the staff may not have noticed.
So if with a GG I ask her to check out for me first, and I generally also watch the traffic before getting up to go!
Another possibility is the disabled loo.
I know its a bit naughty, but with all the gear one has to use to keep one’s tackle in good order I reckon we are a bit disabled in any case!