While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender41
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Crossdressing New to the Trans World5
It certainly wasn’t for me but you do need to be sure and be ready for come what...
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Crossdressing Story From Boy to Girl12
“Now we can’t keep calling you James, she said, so let’s pick a nice girls name for you. How...
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Crossdressing A Close Shave2
Reply I’m naturally fair so very lucky here, Obviously, I still shave, and so I can offer a modicum...
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Crossdressing Stories From Boy to Girl35
I suppose mum was right really. When I looked in the mirror in my bedroom before putting on the...
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Cossdressing: Foundation Make up4
Step4 I wait until I’m completely cool and use a cosmetic sponge and my fingers to spread on an...
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Attending college in female mode2
Reply The thing that will make you stand out will be your voice… try to practise speaking softly!
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A Crossdressers first Makeover2
I have applied makeup before myself. But this time it would be done by a professional lady, who knew...
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Attending college in female mode7
There is no right or wrong way to go about it, just the way you decide. I’m a 6ft...