While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender41
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 57
Miss showed me the pics and I said I was a beautiful girl in the photos and I was...
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Friend of a Crossdresser11
I took my clothes and went to the bathroom. On the way, mom handed me an extra towel for...
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Crossdressing and Living with Mother10
Reply I’m getting the impression that you’re not really looking for answers, just some general hand-wringing and sympathy. Anyway,...
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Crossdressing & Make Up8
Reply Think and be positive, just do it as you don’t need to visit your local Boots or other...
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Crossdressers Answering the call of Nature7
Reply As others have said using the ladies even in straight venues has never been a problem for me....
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Feminine body without hormones12
Reply I’m going to echo what you said. I have a friend who is 2 years into hormone treatment...
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My First Crossdressing Experience in Public 18
They were a bit tight but I never said anything and just ate up the pain. The pain in...
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Crossdressing Clothing / Make Up Purchase 8
Reply It was at Boots in Basingstoke that I found out what foundation suited me. I had just had...