While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender41
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Crossdressing, Concealing Beard Shadow6
Using Make-up Unless you’re having Laser or Electrolysis treatment which destroys the hair entirely at the root, you will...
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My First Crossdressing Experience in Public 20
I stood there with my arms on my hips waiting for the lady who was dressing me up to...
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Crossdressing & Hair Retardation3
Ts women take hormones for reasons other than to reduce body hair because it makes them feel better without...
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Friend of a Crossdresser8
Neha: (crying) Oh little brother, I missed you so much! Me: I missed you too sis! I missed you...
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Telling Mum, I’m a Crossdresser7
“Oh, my,” said mum, “you look absolutely gorgeous Kirsty” as she stood up and gave me the biggest hug...
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A Crossdresser Steps Out1
It must be several months ago now and I had an unfortunate encounter with a drunk. It was getting...
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Crossdressing and Living with Mother11
Reply You are right it will limit my femme life, yes I sulk behind her back when I can...
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Crossdressing and Living with Mother
Reply What you need to do is find an activity she likes, such as dancing or dare i say...