1. Recognition that one’s Brain Gender is different from one’s Physical Gender —
This first phase comprises the majority of transgendered persons (75 – 95%) and can take the form of seeing one’s self as a “woman trapped in a man’s body,” a need to express one’s “feminine side,” etc. This stage is mainly concerned with physical/surface changes such as crossdressing, passing,
makeup, wigs, etc. In this first part, many gender folk don’t even venture from their own home in female attire or restrict their expression to undergarments (bra, panties) in public. They often have a juvenile (before age 15) and later, an adult phase. There is often years or decades between the two phases. This level is filled with confusion, conflict, guilt, panic, and purging. The so called “Primary Transsexual” is an individual who never constructs a male persona and therefore never accepts their male genitals or challenges their female Self Map/subjective gender.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender45
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My First Crossdressing Experience in Public 36
“Open your eyes Samantha, you only have 2 and a half hours with me, so let’s get started” “...
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Crossdressing Not Going Out6
I eventually realised that this wasn’t really enough and I needed to get out more. It was quite easily...
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Crossdressing & Feminine Items7
Reply I wear lingerie especially sexy panties and either holdups or tights when I have that urge to be...
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Crossdressing Help with First Time Make Up7
Reply You could just go into any Pound shop, spend no more than ten pounds on whatever you fancy...
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 30
I was told to stand up in the middle of the room and raise my arms out to my...
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Crossdressing Advice on Underwear6
Reply Wrap a few layers of tissue around your private parts. You might think this would make it bigger...
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Crossdressing Marriage Problem1
Question I think age comes into it too. Speaking as a more mature crossdresser (almost 60) I know that...
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Crossdressing Coming Out to Your Partner11
She liked him in his male mode and, she could see that he was an important part of my...