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With your reference to your mother
there must be some bitterness here,
This bitterness can only increase with time.
Don’t blame your mum for your chosen lifestyle.
Who owns the house?
If she does, then why wait till you’re 34 to move out?
Get your own place then you can do what you want.
As for her questioning your every move…
well is it that unusual for people of your age to want their independence???