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There are no rules.

Certainly, no rule that says if you come out you have to start presenting in a certain way.

What do you want to come out to people as?

Labels are good for other people to help them understand the new you but can be difficult to pick between.

You can come out as trans based on you asking if you should dress female on a daily basis.

Equally, you could come out as non-binary, genderfluid, or just say you are questioning your gender based on saying you only dress occasionally.