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Start by going out in the the world.

You could go to support groups or trans events, have a makeover to get you off the ground.
I’d build your confidence in yourself and establish where you want to go with this.

Maybe leave the androgynous well alone unless that is you.

Do the coming out to people when you know how you define yourself.

there’s nothing worse than telling people your X and then having to reinform them a year later,