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I came out last year,

I feel transfeminine,

knew I was a girl from an early age,

and had to do something before I took my life.

It had got to that point.

I am not sure if I am non-binary or a woman, non-binary wasn’t a term I had heard until relatively recently anyway,

but I not really worried.
But if I tell people I am non-binary then they have no expectations,

and I can look and sound like me, and make any changes I need at my own pace without pressure.

I tend to not wear heels, skirts, dresses outside the house,

which may sound androgynous, but that is how I saw most women dress around me and I didn’t want to stand out.

I am not saying that would be necessarily right for you, but that is how I am coping, and it is working for me.