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No one in their right mind goes out wearing latex in the day unless they’re attention-seeking.

I think you’re at that difficult crossroads where you haven’t yet separated your desire to present as female from your sexuality.

It’s tricky because the two do overlap a lot.

Many of us come into it from a sexual angle;

some never progress beyond that,

but many then feel the satisfaction that the femininity gives them;

they start going out in badly-selected slutty outfits,

and ten years down the line you will find them in Costa,

wearing a sensible Karen Millen dress and planning their lunch.