She realized I still loved her as much, if not more now everything was in the open.

There would be no more hiding clothing and makeup from her.

I now help her around the house,

Cleaning

Fully dressed as Lisa Maria

My wife now even buys clothing for me.

This is how far I have traveled on my voyage to happiness.

Bearing this in mind, I feel you must tell your partner about Gemma,

If not only for your own peace of mind.

However, choose the right moment.

This may be when she is in a happy and contented mood.

Do not go at it like a bull in a china shop.

Be gentle and thoughtful.

This can all be a  shock at first to any real woman.