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There is no best way and no magic formula
This is one of those really big topics that ultimately boil down to a matter of personal judgment.
For what it’s worth, however, I recommend the following…
1. Do not rush it just because you feel frustrated.
The likelihood is, in any event, that you are going to have to reign in your crossdressing
at least for a while
until she has come to terms with it.
2. Minimise the shock to her
As in .
do not suddenly appear dressed…
take it gently and slowly and make sure you do so in appropriate surroundings where she can react as she wishes.
Make sure there is time for her to ask you questions without distractions