3. This discussion is going to be about her reaction to you as much as you yourself.

Its worth anticipating how she may react –

but sometimes the things partners react to are not what you’d expect.

The “normal” questions include

are you gay,

do you want to transition,

do you want to embarrass me in public..

4. perhaps most important make sure your relationship is on a sound footing,

Ensure that she feels your love and reassurance.

There are some great online resources as well with thoughts and ideas on how others have handled this challenge.