She liked him in his male mode and, she could see that he was an important part of my life.
It is a difficult call.
The “third person” could be the catalyst or the reason for the original relationship to fall apart.
This is just the account of my recent coming out.
I know that as a result, I have to spend more time with my wife which is good and rewarding and therefore less time spent in furtive encounters as Caroline.
To sum up.
Yes, I’m glad my wife knows and is coming to terms with acceptance.