I am lucky in that sense because a couple of years ago I created a website that was part vanity project and part an attempt to put down my own thoughts about the whole TG thing.

Pen found it really useful to fill in some of my sometimes incoherent explainations.

We are now actually in the process of rewriting the websites as a sort of joint perspective.

Even with all of the advantages I’ve had though,

like the website,

the support of my friends,

It has taken time to work through this new phase in our relationship.

Time, talk, and honesty would seem to be the key to the whole thing.