Also, you have rather a lot going on if you have tights,
pants,
petticoats,s and a skirt.
A change to holdups might help,
then you wouldn’t have to mess about with the waistband of the tights.
Losing the knickers also helps…
However, perhaps that’s not your style…
I suspect your best source for a straight petticoat is M&S or John Lewis if you have one locally.
Or even your local market,
they often have stalls that specialize in basics and ‘traditional’ underwear.