Dr Kelly looked at Ted for a minute then said, “No, I’m not the one in a diaper, that’s true, but it’s your own attitude that is going to dictate how others treat you.” Ted looked confused by that and asked, “What do you mean? There is no way to hide this forever. People will find out sooner or later.”

“No,” the doc said. “There is probably not a way to hide this forever and people will most likely find out, so don’t try to hide it, and you will be teased and made fun of, but your attitude about this will dictate how you will be treated afterwards.