I know right now you wish everyone didn’t know, but to the people who matter it’s not a big deal, I don’t care, and neither will anybody else you actually care about. And everyone else will have forgotten within a couple of weeks, and it won’t be a big deal anymore. You’re not going to let it be a big deal anymore, if people say to you ‘Haha, you wet the bed,’ just turn around and say, ‘Yeah, I know I do. So?’ And they’re not going to know what to say, and if it doesn’t bother you where’s the fun in teasing you?”
“But it does bother me.”
“Ben, it doesn’t matter if you go home and cry yourself to sleep every night, as long as they don’t know it bothers you.