Jamaican House Mom

I have written before about Ingrid, the Jamaican housekeeper and nanny who was in full charge of the younger ones discipline in our house, and how she spanked me with both her hand and the belt whenever I was naughty enough to have earned a whipping. As I mentioned before, she had spanked her own […]

Two Sore Points

In 1941, I was in a day school for boys in Oxford. I had no siblings, and my father had been killed in the war in late 1939. Lots of others who lived nearby had also lost their fathers, and many more men were away fighting. Everything in Oxford, though, was much more peaceful than […]

Siblings

    My sister and I are what’s termed fraternal twins – the product of two separately fertilised eggs, rather than the conventional divided one. My sister Cassie is slightly older according to our mother – who should know of course, because she was there to welcome us! We loved each other, still do, and […]

This time for Real

In addition to parental punishments, the young are sometimes spanked by someone closer to their own age, most commonly an older brother or sister or a babysitter. In my case, it was my older sister Cathy who introduced me to the pain of a sound spanking. Cathy and I were best friends growing up. Some […]