Reply I’ve not been around for a bit due to personal stuff. But your post very must strike a cord. It’s very much what I’ve been going through for years now, having a loving and supportive wife, it’s been a long road with very big bumps along the way, taking  h r t […]

  I feel totally strong against the people who obviously aren’t on board and people who are have gone out of their way to tell me. I don’t care about how femme I present to the world. But I don’t really want to mess up my marriage. I know my kids will love me one […]

Reply I’m not bothered about breasts really. Now I’ve stopped trying to be a boy I feel amazing in myself and so much stronger. I guess the hair is the most ‘in your face” thing. Now it’s getting longer I’m getting so much love from the people I admire myself, whereas in the past I […]

Reply Reading between the lines, your run-through, how taking hormones will affect your life if you are not living full-time. Well, there are people who do. It may change your relationship with your wife even if she’s supportive, seeing changes will raise more questions for her. Taking hormones doesn’t guarantee changes like breasts, you could […]

Reply   Much of it is about striking a balance between being what you want and being concerned about how others see you. When we start our journey most of us are more worried about the reactions of others, hence the focus on ‘passing’ in one way or another. Then gradually we find our way […]

Fortunately, unfriendly attitude, coldness, and the odd insolent mirth to my face is the worst I have ever suffered, so far. However, it is in effect impossible to modulate their attitude and mindset. There’s no point even trying, so we might as well just act ourselves and not try to be something or someone else, […]

    Reply I understand that you relate to being androgynous. That’s a good default setting for anyone still exploring themselves and their life direction. Androgyny works in its own right as an image and identity, not just as a halfway house toward something more full-femme. So that comes with a lot of built-in leeways, […]

  I’m actually caring less and less about what anyone thinks. Except my wife, who is lovely and supportive… but married a boy. A) is this a reaction to being scared shitless of where I think this may be going? B) I think all my questions are A). All my other questions are pretty irrelevant, […]

Question I’ve started doing positive things recently to look more feminine. Grown my hair, getting face lasered… all fairly subtle. But I think I’ve opened Pandora’s box. I’m getting obsessed now with how I could pretend to still be a ‘normal’ guy if I do more feminizing things. I’ve lots of experience pretending to be […]

Reply I mean no offense to those of you that supply such coaching. However, having received coaching to supposedly help me as a male when I worked for the government, I found it never ever helped me cope with idiots. I have found that getting on with life to be the best outcome. On a […]