I Flew UK->US and back, UK->Dublin and back, UK->Greece, and half a dozen others I’d forgotten during the social transition but before I had a passport or driving license in the appropriate name/gender. Had one border guard in Greece be a little awkward and one guy before boarding a BA flight to the US at […]

I’m flying to Dublin soon and I would love to do so as myself. My problem is that my passport is still under my male identity. Would that be a problem for passport control in Ireland and back to the UK? I’m thinking that it should not as I am free to dress as I […]

Reply My only experience with a home hair color kit was in my early transition days. I was running late and I hurriedly followed all the instructions to the letter However, I blew dried my hair quickly before going out for a meal with two friends who had come up to York. I set off […]

  Reply Just for men is not “a color” it is in several color tones that sort of mask the grey hair. It is okay but it won’t last six weeks you’d be lucky to get four weeks out of it. Most colleges that do hairdressing courses are always on the lookout for models. Why […]

If you want something that you can get away with in front of “family” but will look femme as well, when you want it too, you could try what I have done. I had highlights put in for a “been out in the sun” effect. If I brush my hair, mixing the highlights in with […]

Reply With dark brown hair, you’ll need to have some highlights put in first, though this does depend on what effect you are looking for. Putting aside male or female hair types, mostly because I don’t believe there’s a lot of difference when it comes to coloring. Basic stuff, if you want to color dark […]

Question So far I have been trying Shaders & Toners wash-in and out. However, the rich mahogany color tends to make me look like Quentin Crisp. If you don’t know who he was, ask an auntie. I have now invested in “Just for Men” which I am planning to try. However at £5 for 6 […]

Reply Let’s just say I feel girly a lot, in fact most of the time so I have no doubt lots of you will say I should transition but I am too old to take that step, As to feeling just right I usually use feminine antiperspirant and body spray over my panties and 60 […]

Reply I have been weaving in a lot more fem touches when drab these days. I have lightened my dirty blonde hair to a much brighter shade, I sometimes wear nail polish This is mainly black, I shave my legs, have started to wear brighter clothes although still men’s This includes pale blue or orange […]

Reply I’ve been wearing ladies’ jeans since my 20’s. I was told when I went to buy a suit that I had big hips and would need a bigger waist size to get the trousers over my bum. Since then I’ve found that ladies’ jeans fit me better than men’s. What really makes me feel […]