Reply Did you have similar thoughts this morning? My thoughts were that I should have put on my slap before starting work but I was late getting up. I kept popping back upstairs to shower, put my slap on, etc. in between work and I’m presentable now

Question Was half way through my foundation this morning when “Why  am I doing this?” I decided not to over analyze, persevered, and am now sitting with my coffee, happily enough. Not every thought needs to be followed through?

Reply It depends upon what you want to radiate as a persona. As well as the environment in which you find yourself. A softly spoken dark and tobacco ruined voice is not unusual in some quarters and can blend very readily into the background. Perhaps if the voice cannot match the look, then it might […]

Reply I know there are lots of websites that cover this subject, but the best advice I had was from another Tgirl. She simply advised me to ‘feel’ where my voice came from and try to ‘lift it up’. She explained that didn’t mean speaking deliberately higher or squeekier. but trying to feel your voice […]

However, this brings me to the bad point. It takes hours, days, weeks, months of a real slog. You often feel faint, feeling that perhaps you are doing it wrong). As well as this, you can feel out of breath and discombobulated. But all I can say is it has been worth it. I am […]

Reply This was one of my biggest worries. Getting my voice to sound more female is now my priority for the year… I even ordered at the local Indian yesterday in my female voice, so things are looking up. It is simply terrible to feel one is close to passing, only to realize that any […]

A woman’s ‘diction’ or clarity of speech is normally much better than a male’s. Me. I used to spend a lot of time talking English to foreigners. I Had to be slower, very clear, and not use slang. It helps now and my voice is mid-range, not high. I have never had a funny look […]

     Reply A few thoughts for you: Women speak with more rhythm, males with a monotone. Women smile more and use their hands. A ‘false’ high voice sounds just that. Women speak more softly, That is from the top of the lungs, Not from the diaphragm. Unless they are holding a conversation with you […]

Question It’s the one big worry I have, that I sound like a bloke, regardless of what I look like. I live in a house of flats, and was once outside having a ciggie when a man came to see a relative in another flat. He said hi to me, and all I did was […]

Reply I have the strangest feeling that this just might not be as difficult as you imagine. I feel that your friend already suspects Gemma Lou’s existence. If she indeed does, half the battle is already won. Let’s face it, what you would like to confess isn’t exactly the crime of the century. You haven’t […]