Reply One of the developments in coming out to Anita is that yesterday we had a girly day out shopping together. We found a nice women’s clothes shop in Walton with some lovely tops which we both liked. The upshot was that we selected atop which we both liked and retired to try it on. […]

I am lucky in that sense because a couple of years ago I created a website that was part vanity project and part an attempt to put down my own thoughts about the whole TG thing. Pen found it really useful to fill in some of my sometimes incoherent explainations. We are now actually in […]

From that point, Trisha has been part of our lives in a way that I’d never anticipated. The chief difference being the very close and genuine friendships we’ve formed that go beyond the bounds of Onlinw. These are the things that have ‘coming out’ worthwhile and, have made the inevitable palatable. Just another couple of […]

The Sukie connection is interesting. This is not only because Sukie’s a very much valued friend to Pen and I,  but because meeting another close friend face to face for the first time (in this particular case, Saskia) was a major step in accepting the fact that I was relating to real people rather than […]

  Reply   One of Pen’s chief worries last August, when she finally discovered my predilections, was that I would, given the freedom to be Trisha, after all these years, become less of the man that she knew and married. For a while that went hand in hand with minor insecurity about the possibility that […]

She liked him in his male mode and, she could see that he was an important part of my life. It is a difficult call. The “third person” could be the catalyst or the reason for the original relationship to fall apart. This is just the account of my recent coming out. I know that […]

She liked him in his male mode and, she could see that he was an important part of my life. It is a difficult call. The “third person” could be the catalyst or the reason for the original relationship to fall apart. This is just the account of my recent coming out. I know that […]

Anyone who is considering ” coming out ” should take an introspective look at their relationship with their partner. If the relationship is close, it is easier than if you have somehow gone your separate ways while sharing the same bed and, living in the same house. A strong relationship will survive the shock. However, […]

Everything was fine. However, the following morning my wife wanted a sit-down talk. She kindly but firmly stated that if I was going to be Caroline and go out as Caroline she would accept it. However, this was on the condition that any time spent as Caroline, would have to be compensated by my time […]

I have over the past months made no secret that I wanted to go to the BNO one month and, that Suki would lend me the clothes. This October was to be the target. However, it did not plan out that way. I contacted another t girlfriend Jan and suggested we went to Stunners on […]