Reply The best advice I can give about going out dressed is dress to blend in. Do not dress in anything wild that will make you stand out from the crowd, This includes make-up. How many women do you see going down your local high street in 6 inch stiletto thigh-length boots and a leather […]

People in the BDSM scene generally wouldn’t bat an eyelid at someone in a dress and a beard if that’s how you want to dress. Another good option would be to book a makeover. You say you won’t pass but it’s amazing what a bit of makeup can do. If you wanted to go outdoors […]

I had facial hair when I was younger but I was well and truly in the closet back then. Like yourself, I longed to go outdoors dressed but only ever did one late night drive back then. It got me down eventually and I stopped dressing for quite some time. I’m femme pretty much every […]

Reply I suppose it depends what clothes you want to wear. Normally I’d say just go out and do it. However you say you haven’t been clean-shaven for many years so is your facial hair important? If you’re going for the full femme look then facial hair will draw attention to yourself. Plenty of people […]

Question   My name is Will and I have been secretly cross-dressing for many years. In my last relationship, it was something I had to hide because she didn’t like it. Fast forward to my new relationship. the person I’m with now is so excepting and supportive to the point she even encourages me to […]

Reply I came out last year, I feel transfeminine, knew I was a girl from an early age, and had to do something before I took my life. It had got to that point. I am not sure if I am non-binary or a woman, non-binary wasn’t a term I had heard until relatively recently […]

Reply So you’ve made the first step with having a makeover and you look fabulous. I went through my childhood knowing something was not right, but it took another 40 ish years to finally discover the real me. back in the 70s I’d have been beaten up for dressing as a girl my town, so […]

Regarding what to wear, it’s really up to you as long as you don’t look out of place. While I agree that lots of women wear jeans, you state on your profile that you like dresses and skirts so if you’re more comfortable wearing those then that’s perfectly ok as long as they are suitable […]

If you drive then you could put fuel in the car dressed as it doesn’t take long and you could to pay ay the pump if you preferred. Other things you could do is order a takeaway and receive it femme, go out and pick up a takeaway, do a bit of shopping at the […]

A lot of events are just social meetings in pubs so as you say you’re looking for friendship and a chat this might suit you and you could go drab first. T-girl events like Leeds First Friday are popular so look out for those and again, you could go drab first while you’re finding your […]