Reply It’s up to you. For me good time to cut my hair will be in crematorium one thing is true men like long hair doesn’t matter what.

Reply I’m 55, my hair is and has pretty much always been long. It’s also always down when I’m drab, never a ponytail, as it’s not my style. No one ever comments badly or questions about it as I guess everyone is used to me with long hair. Length of hair and style is and […]

Reply I used to wear a wig that almost came to my shoulders but over lockdown and before I’ve let my own hair grow so it now almost reaches my breasts. Looking after it is a bit of a pain as it is thin and won’t hold a style without hairspray but the fact that […]

Reply No, it’s just a case of personal preference. My mum always had short hair but my great gran’s was really long. My ex had short hair but her mum’s was long. Based on these 2 examples there’s no reason why older ladies shouldn’t have long hair. It all comes down to personal preference really […]

Reply I’ve always used short wigs, I started at 52 and they worked for me then and still do. I think a lot of girls see long hair as a symbol of femininity, but in practice if a style doesn’t suit you then it just doesn’t work and that’s it, irrespective of your age. A […]

Just wondering of thoughts of age (if any) to give up the long locks and go short? I am 52 and for all my time dressing (Blimey over 30yrs+) I’ve had long hair and loved it, but also spent a fortune over that time on wigs as they don’t last forever for sure and the […]

If I still lived at home with my mum I am sure I would still have my own life, come and go as I pleased within reason. This would be done whilst respecting my mum’s lifestyle, I would still also have my own privacy too. How come you don’t seem to have that? I am […]

Reply I can fully appreciate the need to look after an aged and infirm parent. It is indeed it is a terrible challenge that requires the patience of a saint, and the determination of a devil. If the original poster was in that situation I would be more sympathetic. However, she is not All that […]

My mother was totally on her own and someone had to keep an eye on her. After she recovered from that one, one complaint after the other popped up over a period of ten years. This ended with me running around with buckets of puke and pee and poo, getting no sleep and carrying her […]

Reply Stuff happens in people’s lives, one can get into these situations quite easily and it’s far more common than you may think. Why do people have to be ridiculed for showing little responsibility for an aging parent I initially landed back at my mother’s place after losing the squatted house I was living in […]