Reply I would like to ask How many 35-year-olds, trans or not, live with their retired mothers when they remain agile and compos mentis? I know your circumstances were different, and I know you had your own personal problems to deal with.

Reply You are right it will limit my femme life, yes I sulk behind her back when I can not get my knickers and nylons on I also become very aggressive as well as I become suppressed and cannot express myself through my femme attire I am not looking for pity here, I have a […]

Reply I’m getting the impression that you’re not really looking for answers, just some general hand-wringing and sympathy. Anyway, there is no answer You are doomed to a life of sculking around behind her back, waiting till she goes to the shops or bingo before you can dress, and generally limiting your femme life.

Reply My mother has no understanding as to why I like to dress. However, it is all right for her to do as she pleases and expects everyone to fall into line. She should respect me for who I am a  TG person and tolerate it even if she can not accept it. Buying or […]

Reply With your reference to your mother there must be some bitterness here, This bitterness can only increase with time. Don’t blame your mum for your chosen lifestyle. Who owns the house? If she does, then why wait till you’re 34 to move out? Get your own place then you can do what you want. […]

Reply Yes, I do have a fulltime job I’m 34 soon to be 35 but you are right leaving is the only option. However like I say she questions everything I do If she thinks something is wrong then she will question it I do want to leave but i want to move in with […]

Reply Once again The question remains Do you have a job? How old are you? If you honestly can’t explain to your own mother that you feel it’s time you got your own place and started supporting yourself then you need to sort yourself out. Your mother has probably worked hard for a number of […]

Reply I know people like to have some fun and yes so do i but I needed serious input on this question I do not have time for wisecracks. Yes, leaving home seems to be the only option. However, how do explain why when I have been living with my mother for ten years? Plus […]

Reply Was in a similar situation years ago. The difference was, my mom fell ill and I couldn’t leave. I spent years looking after her and it ruined half my life. Sometimes you are not given the choice……. By the time I got some of my freedom back, I was 40 and half my life […]

Reply Might be helpful if you offered a bit more information. Is it your or your mother’s home? Do you currently have a job or are unemployed? While moving in with another TV might sound good they’d still want you to pay rent. Also, you might actually want to know the person you’re moving in […]