Nibola Calton – “Nibs” – is in her mid-20s and is now a very successful ghost runner; but that was not always the case. When she, or to be more accurate “he” was younger, he led a sheltered life living in a corporate enclave. His life was spent at one corporate-sponsored school or another, as […]

Reply I have had girls change at my place, and also arrive changed. It often depends on their circumstances. My trans girlfriend (now ex) was 24/7 and so this question did not arise. The most important thing is what type of person you are, how you treat others. Everything else can be worked on and […]

And a tip that all girls should adhere to is, never trust drinks off a stranger unless it put in your hand by the bar staff directly, and never turn your eyes away from your drink, even someone as butt ugly as me has had run-ins with guys spiking my drinks. Not trying to scare […]

One thing a couple of my old friends used to do is hire a cheap hotel room for the night, a few would get together, go in male mode, get dressed up in the room, have their night out, then dress back into male mode to go home. I would definitely consider having at least […]

Reply I think unless your voice is super deep or something, I doubt anyone would even think you were a guy dressed up, Most would just see you as a woman. So, dress up in something that makes you feel comfy and relaxed, and anywhere you are thinking of trying, research the area it is […]

Reply We all experienced these feelings in the early days of our journey. I would advise one little step at a time to help you accept and feel confident. Dressing and meeting a guy and going out is probably not the ideal first step to feeling at ease and comfy. Maybe the aid of a […]

Reply Most guys who are considerate and understanding would not mind at all, I’ve been to clubs and taken the girl I am going with in male mode she has got dressed at the club taking her time.

I have been dressing for many years, however, it has always been a private experience. Although I have started to identify that I may be in the wrong people however I haven’t sought any medical advice on this. However, my anxiety is really bad about meeting other guys and it definitely presents a barrier to […]

I also did a year of makeup and beauty part-time course when I started transition and had 0 problems, infact I got on really well with everyone on the course. The whole experience will be down to your attitude unfortunately as we are the odd ones out, so just enjoy the experience and be yourself […]

There is no right or wrong way to go about it, just the way you decide. I’m a 6ft transgender woman and in Uni doing a nursing degree full time, I have 0 issues and everyone is amazing both in uni and when out on work placement on a ward. I am under no illusions […]