Don’t try to ‘manage’ or question it too much. Just go with what makes you happy and comfortable at the time. Mine is strange as sometimes I go through months as femme and other times I can swap overnight for a day. This I don’t understand but I’m slowly learning the only way to be […]

Reply I used to. I didn’t purge as that’s expensive, but I could go for months at a time without dressing while my clothes stayed in my wardrobe. When I didn’t dress I think I was kidding myself I’d finally got over it. After a marriage and a really long break from dressing, my femme […]

Question As long as I can remember I love dressing up all feminine but after many regretted purges I find the urge to dress returns. I have now resorted to purging my girlie things to the attic so I avoid the increasing expense of rebuilding my wardrobe. What I’m struggling with is the strength of […]

The idea of transition has crossed my mind a couple of times over the years, but I always know that it’s not for me. I cannot survive without both my personas Reply Just be comfortable with who you are anyway guys wear makeup so that option is always open. Reply I really feel down changing […]

Reply That is actually the best description of what I’m in too. Sometimes I can’t be bothered to become Sarah. Too much effort…etc, but I know I can if I want to. Sometimes I am happiest just being my male self. An ex-girlfriend told me she would never have suspected I had a femme side […]

However, I think having Jade as part of me makes me more empathetic towards them and others actually. I came to realise I don’t want to be Jade all the time but neither could I live happily without being her. My advice for what its worth is don’t rush to anything. It is ok to […]

Reply For me it depends. Sometimes I want to stay Jade. Other times I actually quite enjoy rediscovering the other me. Some days I love making up. Others I just can’t faff with it. I think that’s why I reached a happy place living two lives. Thought a lot about the transition over the years […]

Reply Oh yes for sure…male = drab and boring crossdressing= fun so I feel sad when it stops Reply Definitely. I feel like I really don’t want to go back to boring drab life. I feel so exhilarated and happy when I’m all made up, and the world seems so much more exciting! It’s that […]

Reply I’ve felt sad on occasions, especially after my first few times out in public. This stopped once I’d been out a few times once I realized that it was going to be a regular thing and I could just look forward to the next time. Reply I often feel a little disappointed when I […]

Reply Is this because when you take off your makeup, your removing your identity? You say you never had the opportunity before which was acting as a restriction, keeping a lid on your advancement. Now you have free rain to be who you are, your expressing feelings of sadness. You should pay attention to this […]