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You are correct in what you are saying.
However, I for one know that to come out would be the end of my life as I know it !
I would lose my wife, family, and friends.
Perhaps in hindsight, one should make the ultimate decision to go down a certain road in their younger years and socialise in the correct social circles.
Perhaps that may be the answer.
Then again we all have degrees in hindsight !!!