Reply
Confusion about gender identity is quite common with people.
If the closet is feeling more like a prison now then you need to break out of it for sure.
Been there, done that, wished I’d done it years before.
I was 49 when I first started going out in public regularly.
I’ve felt I should have been born a girl for as long as I can remember though and years of trying to deny who I was hasn’t helped.
If you want to go out femme then you should.
How you do it is up to you though.