We’ll survive of course, we always do, and she has noticed how much better my health and my depression have been since I started to be open about my transexuality.
She is behind me all the way. But is sad to see how things have gone all the same.
I doubt that anyone could feel differently.
Unless they were aware of their partner’s proclivities from the day they met, it /does/ change a relationship, and while there are many positive steps, there are negatives as well.