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That is actually the best description of what I’m in too. Sometimes I can’t be bothered to become Sarah. Too much effort…etc, but I know I can if I want to. Sometimes I am happiest just being my male self. An ex-girlfriend told me she would never have suspected I had a femme side if I hadn’t told her, as when I’m male I am your typical old-fashioned stereotype man. But then there are days when I just need to go through that transformation into Sarah, and it makes me happy seeing my transformation in the mirror as step by step is taken.