I am looking for a full-time partner myself and yes one of the first things I explain to potential partners is my involvement in the aforesaid swinging scene and the rules I operate it under. and yes this has caused many of my potential partners to walk away to my mind that just tells me right at the start they were not the guy for me and it certainly saves any heartache further down the line. but whatever the outcome from these potential partners I will not start my relationship on the basis of a lie not to mention it gives them the opportunity for to know the real me, warts and all. nobody is perfect but whatever your faults the right person for you will accept you for what you are and who you are. Yes, my method may mean I’m single for a while longer but I think it will save me from finding myself in your position several years into any relationship I may embark on.