While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender41
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Flying en femme4
I had no issues at all regarding my gender not matching my passport. The airline staff did not blink...
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Crossdressing & Hair Retardation3
Ts women take hormones for reasons other than to reduce body hair because it makes them feel better without...
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Crossdressers Buying Female Clothing In Public2
Reply I to was just the same when I first started going to the RG shops. I suffered low...
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Just a Thought about Make Up7
Reply For me it depends. Sometimes I want to stay Jade. Other times I actually quite enjoy rediscovering the...
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 50
I thought to myself, wow an extra inch less makes all the difference. Miss got me some foam and...
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 45
“When I tell you to do something, you will obey my every wishes no matter what, ok my girl!!”...
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Crossdressing Stories From Boy to Girl66
When she got a chance mum told me about the girl’s-only college she had got a brochure about and...
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Crossdressing Feeling Panic when Going Out12
I have done one ‘vanilla’ venue, and that was my first ever time out in Bristol. It was also...