While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
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My First Crossdressing Experience in Public 23
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Crossdressers, When Shaving makes you feel like a Porcupine3
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