1. Recognition that one’s Brain Gender is different from one’s Physical Gender —
This first phase comprises the majority of transgendered persons (75 – 95%) and can take the form of seeing one’s self as a “woman trapped in a man’s body,” a need to express one’s “feminine side,” etc. This stage is mainly concerned with physical/surface changes such as crossdressing, passing,
makeup, wigs, etc. In this first part, many gender folk don’t even venture from their own home in female attire or restrict their expression to undergarments (bra, panties) in public. They often have a juvenile (before age 15) and later, an adult phase. There is often years or decades between the two phases. This level is filled with confusion, conflict, guilt, panic, and purging. The so called “Primary Transsexual” is an individual who never constructs a male persona and therefore never accepts their male genitals or challenges their female Self Map/subjective gender.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender45
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Crossdressing & Foundation Setting Powder6
Reply Perhaps I was being liberal with the word ‘liberal’ but conversely, if you’re trying to set a foundation...
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Crossdressing A Close Shave6
Reply Conditioning the skin prior to shaving should help, but a moisturizer used regularly should be sufficient. Warming the...
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 19
I paid the amount in cash at the desk and then a lady came out and took me with...
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A Crossdresser named Madelaine5
I learned how to do my make-up and got asked to do this shortly after I arrived. I got...
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Dichotomy crossdresser 3
Carole in Customer Services had long seen me as a perfect match for her brother Jason. She was...
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My First Crossdressing Experience in Public 6
The lady was non-judgemental saying when I was sheepishly walking behind, that she thought I had fantastic smooth shapely...
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Crossdressing Talking to Others1
Question I would love to chat to people but just haven’t got the confidence to start a conversation with...
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First Crossdressing Experience in Public 39
Please take off the shaper pants, hips, and bum pads, leaving them on the little coffee table in the...