In many ways, the tradition about not dobbing isn’t a bad one in terms of forming communities among boys and teaching them a degree of self reliance – but taken too far, it can be disastrous so we’ve decided to try and temper it in some cases. With senior boys, there’s also a reasonable understanding that if somebody like myself or their form master, or Matron, or a counsellor says we have to know something, we’re deadly serious and not messing around. And I think most of them trust us enough to deliver what we ask in such cases – they know I’m not going to play that card because a boy is wagging – I’m playing it because I (for example) believe the boy is suicidal.
Caned by the Prefect30
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The Slipper in UK Schools43
I guess this may have been due to the fact that it was administered across PE shorts, it was...
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Corporal Punishment in Mixed Secondary Modern24
When a mixed secondary modern (50s-70s) was a spanking school, the kids tended to get far worse at home....
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Shoplifting10
I too had the misfortune to get caught shoplifting, along with two other girls when I was 15. The...
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Paint it red1
From a mother’s point of view, discipline matters. I learned early on that to be too lenient with children...
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School Discipline References28
I’ve just pulled a book off the shelf – “Which side are you on? Ken Loach and his films”...
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Headmasters Caning Rules5
I heard in Singapore, that all becoming principals & discipline masters/mistresses, are trained in our Ministry of Education, they...
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And when we got there the Cupboard was Bare25
One of the others got 6 of the same & it was painful, ditto the one who got 4...
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Cane and Parents Watching2
i once went home from school when i was 11 with a very red bottom having been spanked hard...