Spank them, kiss them, be with them, talk them into bed, buy them presents- at that age males in general are going to seem like one big blur of mindless lust, especially the older ones.
The factual reporting of schoolgirl CP is, in fact, a tiny statistical sampling. The court cases show the most extreme part of the ‘bell curve’, and as you all should know, the area under the total curve is vastly greater than the area under the extremes to the left or right. People’s own accounts on Friend’s Reunited, or other social commentary, mostly reflects the memories of a more powerful class of ex-pupil, less likely to have been primary victims.