For me, the fear and threat of the strap would have detracted from all of those good things and ultimately, the experience could have been nothing but bad. I will always believe that a family (including the kind of family one finds in the school setting) to be dysfunctional when fear of bodily harm controls the behavior of those in the family. The possibility of being excessively strapped at school by a powerful Master at his whim for any reason, to me is no different than being strapped at home by an alcoholic dad who is likely to strike unexpectently with little provocation. In dysfunctional families there also can be many good things in the periphery but they are all tainted by the dynsfunction that is at the center. Families ruled by fear and threat of pain in my mind are definitely dysfunctional.
Punished for Bad School Report3
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The Slipper in UK Schools48
My bottom was facing the class so everyone would observe the effects of the punishment.After a few seconds, I...
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The Cane and the Double Standard9
His normal mode was to use not a normal school cane but lengths of dowel rod from his...
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Receiving Corporal Punishment as an Adult out of Curiosity54
I was 19 years old when I was caned and in my case it was certainly the “worst pain...
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Corporal Punishment and The Slipper8
My misfortune was almost always to be the tallest boy in the dormitory, and the one with the largest...
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Over the Knee We Went 2
Slightly off subject. It was regarded as rather inappropriate to put an 11-year-old boy over your knee and hand...
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What came after the Slipper
Up until a certain age, my mother would spank me over her knee with a slipper; hard enough to...
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Devastation Caused by Discipline7
I am now going to describe a number of incidents as I remember them and try to describe the...
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Cane Marks8
as hard as a school caning was back then,the marks were no more than a faint trace after about...