it’s nonsense to suggest that teachers in the 1960s weren’t interested in hugging a hurt student or comforting them. I certainly was – and did when it was appropriate to do so – hugging wasn’t all that common, mainly because the boys I taught were of an age where unless they were very distressed indeed, they would have been so embarrassed by the idea of being hugged, it would have been counterproductive – but a pat on the back, or on the shoulder, and other less effusive forms of physical affection were most definitely something I did as a teacher back then when a boy needed that type of attention. And there were boys I did hug if they really needed that, it just wasn’t common that they did. And I certainly wasn’t the most affectionate of teachers – there were many more who did it far more than I did.
The Changing Way of Schooling3
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The Cane for Estelle
This story is about an incident that happened to my cousin Estelle – to this day, we are very...
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A Spanking-Filled Summer5
Stephanie’s seat was somewhere in the middle of the plane and it took her a few minutes to get...
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School Corporal Punishment History22
“The discipline at Xavier was not so much violent as all-pervasive. Corporal punishment, however, remained a part of that...
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Corporal Punishment and The Slipper2
Tto be fair, it did seem to keep order. And when all’s said and done it is hardly the...
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Mild Smacking Allowed5
I read an article from a mother who wrote in response to an article about the terrible two etc....
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The Slipper in UK Schools30
Most of the time, in fact practically always, boys just accepted their fate. They bent over when they were...
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Corporal Punishment and The Caning Experience27
As for the fantasy. Yes, I think a lot is fiction although I am not sure about 99% being...
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Happy Memories 1
Thinking about the ‘happy’ memories I have of my mother’s discipline sessions put me in mind of one particular...