Which was Worse30

I recently discovered that my stepfather, when he was younger (now 64) was in i think some type of ‘group home’ where the people who took care of the kids there would beat them and give them the strap and wouldnt stop until they ejaculated. They told them that it would get worse if they didn’t learn to ‘like it’. He was also molested before he ended up going to the group home to get away from it in the first place. I can’t talk to him about it as something has happened that he’s not allowed contact. I learned this info because they are trying to find out why he did certain things…..I really want to find out where this happened and if any of these disgusting bastards are alive. He was living in Halifax at the time. I think these men could’ve been priests or something….i know he got schooled for awhile by nuns. If you want to talk about painful…..i think that would top it all.