Guess what I am trying to get across is don’t understand on a moral level how can a adult can use physical pain to get the weakest and most vulnerable members of society too obey. It just does not compute with me on a moral level at all.
Because, in my view, it’s truly immoral to let a child fail to grow up into a disciplined adult, if there were things that were in your power to try and you refused to try them because you found them unpleasant or unpalatable, or would have preferred not to use them.